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IdaBriggs

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33. People in long term committed relationships usually *talk* about their

Tue Sep 23, 2014, 12:38 PM

Sep 2014

life changing decisions -- jobs/relocation, children/pets, medical issues, and of course, money. If this person was telling the truth (some on this thread have doubts), there was a serious wake-up call about their future and mutual goals.

Part of the grief is obviously about a new understanding of their relationship and its (lack of) a future. Tough stuff.

She has not stopped him from becoming a parent - she is just not going to be parenting with him.

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Good riddance to this anti-choice troll. [View all] alp227 Sep 2014 OP

Whew shenmue Sep 2014 #1

They were such a Liberal Lefty that they had to put it in their username twice Electric Monk Sep 2014 #2

I've noticed that this is a trend Scootaloo Sep 2014 #4

Long overdue. nt LeftyMom Sep 2014 #3

All I can say is, if you wanted to have a baby with a woman, it would have been a good idea brewens Sep 2014 #5

Finally. Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #6

I know right? laundry_queen Sep 2014 #12

I didn't get a chance to know the poster. Sounds like I lucked up. BlueJazz Sep 2014 #7

That one got away with it for a fairly long time MattBaggins Sep 2014 #8

Long overdue, but still good news. n/t TDale313 Sep 2014 #9

Willing to bet that most anti-choice guys are Laffy Kat Sep 2014 #10

Jesus, what a piece of work. progressoid Sep 2014 #11

Noxious comments and poor grammar, overlaid with an inarticulate patina? MADem Sep 2014 #13

One down, how many to go? murielm99 Sep 2014 #14

never had the "pleasure" of dealing with this one. and glad for it. littlewolf Sep 2014 #15

That one smelled funny from the beginning. nt Cali_Democrat Sep 2014 #16

More like stank like a rotting corpse. Good riddance! freshwest Sep 2014 #18

he is a BAD MAN!!!! trueblue2007 Sep 2014 #17

certainly not a decent human being- forcing women to incubate babies? what an ass. bettyellen Sep 2014 #29

There's only 42 days left in this campaign season. Major Hogwash Sep 2014 #19

Hmm. Two things --- IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #20

I admit... Adrahil Sep 2014 #25

hopefully if you have the expectation that any accidental pregnancy will result in a child... bettyellen Sep 2014 #30

I agree. Adrahil Sep 2014 #38

People in long term committed relationships usually *talk* about their IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #33

I understand him being upset about her deicsion. Adrahil Sep 2014 #40

and boy is it a less than perfect world... someone I dated briefly actually put pin holes in his bettyellen Sep 2014 #44

IF he was telling the truth, which I doubt noiretextatique Sep 2014 #31

I "know" a few people whose partners did not consider any input from them. IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #34

i understand noiretextatique Sep 2014 #35

They are working on their new persona right now RandiFan1290 Sep 2014 #21

... tenderfoot Sep 2014 #22

Also psychotically in favor of the DP. NuclearDem Sep 2014 #23

Unfortunately, that is more common here than one would expect. Nye Bevan Sep 2014 #28

Yet the pro-bombing, pro-corporate personas woo me with science Sep 2014 #24

C'mon...with the words "lefty" and "Liberal" in the username how could adirondacker Sep 2014 #32

The username should have given it away. Renew Deal Sep 2014 #26

That one went on far too long - TBF Sep 2014 #27

Flagged for review twice, each after his second hides of the day alp227 Sep 2014 #36

And I do appreciate that they take time with users that have been here TBF Sep 2014 #37

only over three years of dealing with his posts. misogyny? on du? hmmmm. ;). nt seabeyond Sep 2014 #39

No surprise there... WorseBeforeBetter Sep 2014 #41

Once again, way too long after the fact. MadrasT Sep 2014 #42

Wow MohRokTah Sep 2014 #43

so my question is--why did it take so long? I thought this woman-hating creep was long gone. niyad Sep 2014 #45

Poster got 2 hides on Sept. 8 and thus was flagged for review alp227 Sep 2014 #46