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bettyellen

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44. and boy is it a less than perfect world... someone I dated briefly actually put pin holes in his

Tue Sep 23, 2014, 07:17 PM

Sep 2014

condom. when I noticed the wrapper, I felt completely sick and too frightened to confront him.
I knew he was a lot more attached than I was, and was likely going to break it off soon.
If I'd gotten pregnant, I'd have had no thought other than to abort immediately. Because me and the kid would have to deal with a sociopath for the next nineteen years. There is absolutely no way I was going to screw up the next two decades of my life over a casual relationship with someone who turned out to be a nut case.

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Good riddance to this anti-choice troll. [View all] alp227 Sep 2014 OP

Whew shenmue Sep 2014 #1

They were such a Liberal Lefty that they had to put it in their username twice Electric Monk Sep 2014 #2

I've noticed that this is a trend Scootaloo Sep 2014 #4

Long overdue. nt LeftyMom Sep 2014 #3

All I can say is, if you wanted to have a baby with a woman, it would have been a good idea brewens Sep 2014 #5

Finally. Luminous Animal Sep 2014 #6

I know right? laundry_queen Sep 2014 #12

I didn't get a chance to know the poster. Sounds like I lucked up. BlueJazz Sep 2014 #7

That one got away with it for a fairly long time MattBaggins Sep 2014 #8

Long overdue, but still good news. n/t TDale313 Sep 2014 #9

Willing to bet that most anti-choice guys are Laffy Kat Sep 2014 #10

Jesus, what a piece of work. progressoid Sep 2014 #11

Noxious comments and poor grammar, overlaid with an inarticulate patina? MADem Sep 2014 #13

One down, how many to go? murielm99 Sep 2014 #14

never had the "pleasure" of dealing with this one. and glad for it. littlewolf Sep 2014 #15

That one smelled funny from the beginning. nt Cali_Democrat Sep 2014 #16

More like stank like a rotting corpse. Good riddance! freshwest Sep 2014 #18

he is a BAD MAN!!!! trueblue2007 Sep 2014 #17

certainly not a decent human being- forcing women to incubate babies? what an ass. bettyellen Sep 2014 #29

There's only 42 days left in this campaign season. Major Hogwash Sep 2014 #19

Hmm. Two things --- IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #20

I admit... Adrahil Sep 2014 #25

hopefully if you have the expectation that any accidental pregnancy will result in a child... bettyellen Sep 2014 #30

I agree. Adrahil Sep 2014 #38

People in long term committed relationships usually *talk* about their IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #33

I understand him being upset about her deicsion. Adrahil Sep 2014 #40

and boy is it a less than perfect world... someone I dated briefly actually put pin holes in his bettyellen Sep 2014 #44

IF he was telling the truth, which I doubt noiretextatique Sep 2014 #31

I "know" a few people whose partners did not consider any input from them. IdaBriggs Sep 2014 #34

i understand noiretextatique Sep 2014 #35

They are working on their new persona right now RandiFan1290 Sep 2014 #21

... tenderfoot Sep 2014 #22

Also psychotically in favor of the DP. NuclearDem Sep 2014 #23

Unfortunately, that is more common here than one would expect. Nye Bevan Sep 2014 #28

Yet the pro-bombing, pro-corporate personas woo me with science Sep 2014 #24

C'mon...with the words "lefty" and "Liberal" in the username how could adirondacker Sep 2014 #32

The username should have given it away. Renew Deal Sep 2014 #26

That one went on far too long - TBF Sep 2014 #27

Flagged for review twice, each after his second hides of the day alp227 Sep 2014 #36

And I do appreciate that they take time with users that have been here TBF Sep 2014 #37

only over three years of dealing with his posts. misogyny? on du? hmmmm. ;). nt seabeyond Sep 2014 #39

No surprise there... WorseBeforeBetter Sep 2014 #41

Once again, way too long after the fact. MadrasT Sep 2014 #42

Wow MohRokTah Sep 2014 #43

so my question is--why did it take so long? I thought this woman-hating creep was long gone. niyad Sep 2014 #45

Poster got 2 hides on Sept. 8 and thus was flagged for review alp227 Sep 2014 #46