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In reply to the discussion: the average IQ in the U.S. is 98 [View all]Hekate
(100,130 posts)... dropped in college, and rejoined as a divorcee in a new town where I knew no one aside from people my ex-husband worked with. It's how I met my second-and-final-husband. When I was single I supported my kids as a secretary, not a CEO. My best girlfriends are also from that group. They understand.
And I almost never tell anyone that I'm a member because it makes them uncomfortable. My neighbor kept wanting to know how I met the ladies she and I kept going to movies and plays with, and when I stopped being evasive and told her she got pretty snarky for awhile, which hurt.
No one I know ever discusses their IQ. Sure I remember what my score was all those decades ago. It doesn't make me a better person; just a person who often sees the world differently than many others.
You said it all very well, murielm.