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jwirr

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30. You are not alone. I was born in 1941. Much of what you talk about is what I went through. We
Thu Sep 25, 2014, 01:23 PM
Sep 2014

grew up in a world that was at first satisfied with simple living.

Then along came the 50s and we started believing the bigger, better and more was the road to success. And for many it did seem like a better life. My family was not one of them. We lost our farm to what eventually became corporate farming and remained poor for years. But as you said we were fed and clothed and had a home over our heads.

Then in the 60s & 70s we became a materialistic people who could not get enough and at first we made enough to be able to afford to live like that. By the end of the 70s prices had gone up and workers were feeling the pressure. I was a divorced mother with three daughters and one of them severely disabled. Poverty was a very familiar situation to us. But I did thanks to grants etc. manage to get a MSW.

Then came the 80s and the trickle down theory and out sourcing of our jobs. After that it has been all downhill for all of us but the rich. I probably could have made the dream work for myself in the 80s but that severely disabled daughter need 24 hour care. Instead of placing her in a center I did what my training had taught me to do - keep her in the best placement - at home. When she was in school or at the day center I worked low income jobs part time wherever I could get them. I took care of her for 45 years.

Bill Clinton seemed to be an answer to our problems but life for many of us did not change and many of the trickle down programs were left in place to continue destroying the middle class. As someone who was poor I will tell you that without a prosperous middle class life on the bottom is hell.

Since the turn of the Century it has only gotten worse. No one seems to be safe from the greed of the 1% anymore. I agree I am afraid for our children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.

The American Dream had become a wish for healthy food on the table, clothing even if it is used, a roof over our heads, healthcare and hopefully a job that can pay for our needs. Notice that education is not even listed anymore.

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"citizens will be looking for leaders who offer concrete, credible plans for a better future—and djean111 Sep 2014 #1
I had a college history teacher in the early 80's that was not impressed with the "American dream". brewens Sep 2014 #2
And that's the crux of it, too, brewens. calimary Sep 2014 #15
Sadly, ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2014 #26
real wages peaked in 1968 KurtNYC Sep 2014 #3
Obama will be blamed, but fiscal conservativism is the culprit. closeupready Sep 2014 #4
And that's Mission Accomplished for the elite assholes. stillwaiting Sep 2014 #6
People must be waking up. PeoViejo Sep 2014 #5
We needed someone far stronger than Obama turned out to be. It was clear from the start that world wide wally Sep 2014 #7
The dream has evaporated into dreary reality. Tierra_y_Libertad Sep 2014 #8
These numbers are significant marions ghost Sep 2014 #9
Or giving up? I hope not..... jwirr Sep 2014 #18
The American Dream is a fantasy. Such phrases mean whatever you want them to mean. Zen Democrat Sep 2014 #10
K&R.... daleanime Sep 2014 #11
I still believe that hard work helps to get you ahead Android3.14 Sep 2014 #12
I haven't gone to the source; but ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2014 #13
Yes, it is interesting that they did not break it down by race. Because since they did not this does jwirr Sep 2014 #24
I'm an old timer, born in 1942. I see the American dream as a nightmare. Paper Roses Sep 2014 #14
Born in 1940 and you express exactly what I feel Stargazer99 Sep 2014 #17
You are not alone. I was born in 1941. Much of what you talk about is what I went through. We jwirr Sep 2014 #30
It is now the American Nightmare. There will be no ballyhoo Sep 2014 #16
The American Dream was always a hoax, propaganda from the Ownership class. Rex Sep 2014 #19
True - some of us after WWII had half a chance - TBF Sep 2014 #35
The PTB view this as good news whatchamacallit Sep 2014 #20
That's what happens when you have 2 Corporate Parties representing the 1%, and NOBODY blkmusclmachine Sep 2014 #21
The "American Dream" mythos is, far more, steeped in ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2014 #32
I'm not sleeping right now. davidthegnome Sep 2014 #22
You describe the situation well... marions ghost Sep 2014 #28
Yep n2doc Sep 2014 #31
Perhaps it is time to dream a different dream. Skidmore Sep 2014 #23
Thank you so much for sharing that link BrotherIvan Sep 2014 #33
Aw, c'mon guys! Turn that frown upside down! You gotta have... KansDem Sep 2014 #25
The American Dream was always bullshit. alarimer Sep 2014 #27
This is the great "conservative" achievement Cary Sep 2014 #29
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