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In reply to the discussion: America's poor actually live pretty durn well [View all]bhikkhu
(10,789 posts)Anyone who's worked at poverty-level wages doesn't have to apologize for what they have - they probably worked harder for it than anyone in the middle class or upper class. I know when I was raising a family and just above the poverty line it was a struggle to keep up a decent house for the family, and have some decent things so they didn't feel embarrassed about having so little. It was a lot of work, and a lot of stress, and it was unfair, but the last straw would have been if someone looked at how hard we tried and thought we didn't deserve what we had. Fortunately, we live in a decent community of the semi-impoverished, and most people are in the same boat.
If you see someone who inherited money, do you expect them to feel ashamed that they have a nice car, a house and an iphone? Too many people are backwards about the whole thing...