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In reply to the discussion: My father died Sunday night [View all]ladyVet
(1,587 posts)127. So sorry, Glinda.
My father, 84, has something similar called myelofibrosis, diagnosed last year. It's a bone marrow disease which the doctor says makes the bone marrow thick and rough like tree bark. His spleen has taken over making new blood, which is very hard on him. He's had transfusions, takes a cancer drug at $1000 a pop, twice a day. He's too old to get a bone marrow transplant.
But he still works. He's slowed down, and some days he comes home early, but he would die if he had to sit at home. And make my mother crazy (she had breast cancer two years ago, nearly dying from complications from the surgery).
It's hard knowing Daddy is going to die before his time from this. We expected him to live into his 90s, like most of his family, but the expectancy from this is five years.
Daddy was too young for WWII, but served in Korea, and spent many years in the National Guard.
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May good memories bring you peace. You have provided care and love to your parents...
Frustratedlady
Oct 2014
#6
Something else to think about is Gulf chems and Fracking chems....similar compounds.
glinda
Oct 2014
#65
Agreed, everything you read to begin with says it is disease that strikes older people ...
slipslidingaway
Oct 2014
#116
glinda, I am so sorry for your loss. that generation is gold. i hate to hear each time one goes.
roguevalley
Oct 2014
#72
My dad, also a WW II veteran (Marine Raider, 1st Marine Division) died of ALS in 2000.
catbyte
Oct 2014
#85
I am sorry for your tremendous loss. And I agree with your closing thought.
marble falls
Oct 2014
#103