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Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
Sat Oct 11, 2014, 10:39 AM Oct 2014

Violence against women, children, gays & other vulnerable people [View all]

is one of the most intolerable aspects of the insane worldwide culture of Patriarchy.

And I think patriarchy dehumanizes dominant males just as much as it does everyone else. "Real men" don't cry. "Real men"are tightly restricted in the range of behaviors acceptable for them (just imagine what would happen to a boy who chooses to play with dolls). Rage and resentment are the only emotions they are permitted to show. "Real men" are so trapped in the system that they can't even perceive the chains that bind them.

Our species can't survive patriarchy. Either patriarchy comes to an end in the next decade or 2, or we all do.

Patriarchy is all about dominion--male dominion over women, human dominion over Gaia. Dominator ideology has brought us fracking, climate change, and Dick Cheney. Well, Mother Nature has about had it with this lunacy. We either get our shit together and grow up out of our dysfunctional adolescence or She's going to take us off the board and start over with the cockroaches.

The Atlantic article linked below points out the mixed blessing and curse of the Internet and social media as they interact with all this. The ugliness is being exposed; it's up to us to decide how to use that information. For some, it's a negative feedback loop--exposure to the information leads to compassion for the victims, disgust with the violence, and the impulse to end the ugliness. Unfortunately, for too many others, it's a positive feedback loop--exposure results in desensitization and in the impulse to glorify and emulate the violence.

Who will prevail, the humanists or the monsters?

That, my dears, is the question of the age.

The answer will determine not only whether the species will survive, but whether it deserves to survive.

http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2014/10/the-unsafety-net-how-social-media-turned-against-women/381261/4/

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people say i am a man hater. i have recognized the harm to our men. and i have addressed seabeyond Oct 2014 #1
Found your post in the Feminism section daredtowork Oct 2014 #17
Thanks for bringing this to GD, Jackpine Radical. brer cat Oct 2014 #2
Sea also posted this? daredtowork Oct 2014 #14
I posted it first on a thread she started. Jackpine Radical Oct 2014 #16
I thank you both daredtowork Oct 2014 #19
Kick for a very important read. Luminous Animal Oct 2014 #3
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Wow! LostInAnomie Oct 2014 #6
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Dammit, don't you ever get tired of posting this dumb-ass crap? arcane1 Oct 2014 #9
Please go on. LostInAnomie Oct 2014 #10
MIRT tombstones the trolls so rapidly nowdays hifiguy Oct 2014 #18
excellent thread thank u Chimeradog Oct 2014 #8
It has at least as much to do with rabid capitalism hifiguy Oct 2014 #11
I see the two as largely inseperable. It's all about dominance. n/t nomorenomore08 Oct 2014 #15
Change the economics and you change everything else, hifiguy Oct 2014 #21
"but a democratic socialist society would be a far more humane and egalitarian place for everyone." nomorenomore08 Oct 2014 #22
I agree- and Richard Wolff is correct Chimeradog Oct 2014 #25
That's a pretty naive statement about emotional displays by men. LostInAnomie Oct 2014 #12
This is a terrific article daredtowork Oct 2014 #13
We're not doomed. Progress WILL prevail eventually. AverageJoe90 Oct 2014 #20
a great sentiment, but today,with some one of my FB friends sending truedelphi Oct 2014 #23
I realize things may seem bleak to some. AverageJoe90 Oct 2014 #24
We Live in the CRAZY TIMES! To keep ones Grounding & Sanity KoKo Oct 2014 #26
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