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Warren DeMontague

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64. I dont buy that people who have an innate physiological dependence on alcohol
Fri Oct 17, 2014, 02:49 AM
Oct 2014

Can turn around and moderate.

Ever.

Im sorry, I simply don't.

Im not talking about maybe people who partied too much in college and settle down or whatever- and I'm certainly willing to concede that there are different types of "alcoholisms", many of which I would categorize instead as problem drinking...

However, if you're talking about the type of person who can't drink a bottle of wine without subsequently being on the hook for 36 hours of DTs and potentially life-threatening withdrawals- which is not a "normal" reaction to a bottle of wine, and I happen to know for a fact that those people do exist- no, I'm sorry, but no amout of "willpower" is going to turn them into a moderate drinker.

Also it's funny that you mention MM.. Last I heard it was the founder herself who ended up getting drunk and driving, and killing 2 people. A horror story, indeed. But I cant tell people what to do, or think...any alcoholic- im talking about people with a physiological as well as psychological dependence on alcohol- who thinks they can turn around and moderate, I'm not going to be able to stop them from trying to pull off that most impressive feat.

i do think "MM" style approaches are dangerous because they feed into a favorite illusion of the alcoholic, namely that someday they will be able to "drink normally". When someone's immediate response to ingesting any amount of alcohol is a physiological craving for more, that is not a normal physical response to alcohol. And barring some profound deeper chemical understanding, it is not likely to be changed into one.

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atheism pays! unblock Oct 2014 #1
I just hope he found another drug rehab to yeoman6987 Oct 2014 #7
You are assuming he is addicted . . . markpkessinger Oct 2014 #11
Very true. I hope he is just a casual user yeoman6987 Oct 2014 #21
Although what you say is true marym625 Oct 2014 #39
Not as much as religion. Arugula Latte Oct 2014 #46
sure, when you're at the top. this guy was just one of the faithless. unblock Oct 2014 #47
Wonder how long 2 million dollars worth of meth is gonna last him? CBGLuthier Oct 2014 #2
Why do you assume he will return to using? tkmorris Oct 2014 #3
Well, it is like giving lighter fluid to an arsonist... Archae Oct 2014 #4
We don't even know if this guy was necessarily addicted . . . markpkessinger Oct 2014 #10
No, we don't know. Archae Oct 2014 #13
He should have called their bluff and made the "higher power" liberalhistorian Oct 2014 #23
Clarify what you mean by "the other way around" please robbob Oct 2014 #38
It would have been stunned amazement whatthehey Oct 2014 #43
Substitute "Future Self" for "Higher Power" AndyTiedye Oct 2014 #53
Or, his higher power could have been methamphetamine ... CaptainTruth Oct 2014 #62
He might not have even been a user. Possesion does not necessarily mean it was for his use. Thor_MN Oct 2014 #27
Wow, what a classy comment. nt Logical Oct 2014 #58
Because everybody knows that the 12 steps are the ONLY way to get sober, silly! Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #26
I'm sorry, that just isn't a fact. It's a great resource, but "success" rates are highly exgeratede. 2banon Oct 2014 #41
A success rate of 1 out of 10 sounds highly exaggerated? hughee99 Oct 2014 #50
It is hard to get definite statistics, I'd agree with you there. Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #66
Agree completely. n/t 2banon Oct 2014 #68
There needs to be alternatives...noone should cally Oct 2014 #5
and godbothering groups (ALL 12 steppers) are no more successful than other interventions. whatthehey Oct 2014 #44
Drug and alcohol rehab needs to be in the hands of trained educated therapists, not religions. Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #6
Portugal is leading the way on this issue Ampersand Unicode Oct 2014 #9
Portugal? Wow! Interesting, Thanks for the insight.. n/t 2banon Oct 2014 #69
Whenever I hear "trained therapists," I think of the McMartin preschool witch hunt. Archae Oct 2014 #52
Yeah, I wasn't thinking about that, just good old fashioned regular psychotherapists. Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #54
Except what is a "regular" psychotherapist? Archae Oct 2014 #55
Like a chiropractor, you gotta find a good one. Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #56
Good for him! Joanie Baloney Oct 2014 #8
I recommend reading Rehab Nation JonLP24 Oct 2014 #12
Also Gabor Mate "In The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts" Dont call me Shirley Oct 2014 #14
Excellent point, and I'd also liberalhistorian Oct 2014 #24
I've read an article at Cracked.com about the guy who started AA... Archae Oct 2014 #15
KNR n/t DirkGently Oct 2014 #16
"Higher Power" alternative.... Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2014 #17
LOL! good one .n/t 2banon Oct 2014 #42
First thing he saw the check? "Ok, maybe there is a god". lol jtuck004 Oct 2014 #18
Works for me! mountain grammy Oct 2014 #19
sanity prevails! AtomicKitten Oct 2014 #20
K&R Solly Mack Oct 2014 #22
Good. 12 Step Programs work for some people, don't work for others. People- particularly Atheists- Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #25
This is the problem with AA and 12 step programs .. too much turning responsibility over to ''GOD" YOHABLO Oct 2014 #28
"...is within you." Pastiche423 Oct 2014 #30
That is, I think, an oversimplification. Plus, it's not up to anyone to walk anyone else's path. Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #36
The beehive analogy F4lconF16 Oct 2014 #37
There are good points here, but one problem. whatthehey Oct 2014 #48
I dont buy that people who have an innate physiological dependence on alcohol Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #64
but mm and aa success rates are both approximately equal, and aa horror stories are ten a penny too. whatthehey Oct 2014 #70
Actually, I said I think there are probably different forms or manifestations of "alcoholisms". Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #72
I agree with the last bit whatthehey Oct 2014 #73
I fully support scientific research into alcoholism. I know for a fact there are physiological, Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #74
Also I'd add this, regarding "the only sometime successful mitigation is psychological" Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #67
Nothing I said was over simplified. Treatment programs are beneficial .. we can't live in treatment YOHABLO Oct 2014 #61
Like i said, i wouldnt second guess how anyone else pulls it off. Warren DeMontague Oct 2014 #65
Amen! Dustlawyer Oct 2014 #29
Court-mandated rehab is ridiculous Recursion Oct 2014 #31
Just a tentacle of the war on drug economy. More tentacles than an underwater sea kelp forest. lonestarnot Oct 2014 #32
Christians are CONVINCED it works... Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2014 #40
Good. ZombieHorde Oct 2014 #33
JHC.. Lucrative to stand up for what you don't believe in! The "JHC" part is Cha Oct 2014 #34
Barry Hazle Jr sounds clear.. Cha Oct 2014 #35
Guy was not cooperating with the higher power... Jail was the only solution :) Helen Borg Oct 2014 #45
thx for this thread Liberal_in_LA Oct 2014 #49
Good. hifiguy Oct 2014 #51
Good. alarimer Oct 2014 #57
good. forcing that higher power nonsense on people is BS RedCappedBandit Oct 2014 #59
This one god thing is so boring. EEO Oct 2014 #60
Reminds me of a friend who got a DUI some years back. CaptainTruth Oct 2014 #63
Just want to say, Good! 2banon Oct 2014 #71
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