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Javaman

(65,754 posts)
30. Check the parents.
Mon Oct 27, 2014, 09:31 PM
Oct 2014

usually, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. We have two extremes in this country. "helicopter"parents and neglectful parents.

One causes the kid to be afraid of everything, the other causes the kid to have no bounds.

Yes, there are a lot of normal parents out there as well, but the rise of neglect in this nation is rising dramatically.

oh and as aside, many neglectful parents seem to worship a the gun altar.

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Something very wrong in our country. cwydro Oct 2014 #1
yes, lack of coping skills. Javaman Oct 2014 #17
Are people in countries like us... Bigmack Oct 2014 #26
Check the parents. Javaman Oct 2014 #30
You think our parents... Bigmack Oct 2014 #32
I believe we will learn no lesson what so ever from this event Johonny Oct 2014 #23
I keep hearing that he was this happy kid who was popular, but if being rejected by a girl could liberal_at_heart Oct 2014 #2
The narcissistic injury produces unpredictable results Recursion Oct 2014 #3
The armchair psychoanalysts can't help themselves HereSince1628 Oct 2014 #13
Could be. Could also be that I'm an adult who's read Virgil. Recursion Oct 2014 #14
no doctor is needed to come to this conclusion if you actually understand what the term means... bettyellen Oct 2014 #29
From instagram Electric Monk Oct 2014 #4
He comes from a hunting tribe, the Tulalip tribe. liberal_at_heart Oct 2014 #5
Hunting for food is the only way to do it IMO. Fuck killing for trophies. n/t nomorenomore08 Oct 2014 #6
I've known more than one hunter with a handgun. Igel Oct 2014 #18
In parts of Lower Michigan, one can only hunt deer with a shotgun or handgun Kaleva Oct 2014 #24
Why did he have a fucking gun at school? :( Cha Oct 2014 #7
It was pre-meditated murder and he was effective in carrying it out. He had access to guns at home. freshwest Oct 2014 #8
I said "why?" but a better question would have been.. how did he get it in the school? I guess Cha Oct 2014 #9
They do in our local district, but not in some rural ones in the past decade, unless that's changed. freshwest Oct 2014 #11
Few schools have metal detectors hack89 Oct 2014 #12
Maybe schools should be declared gun-free zones (nt) Recursion Oct 2014 #10
Another girl died overnight malaise Oct 2014 #15
Back in my day, when a girl rejected you... Orrex Oct 2014 #16
this. nt seabeyond Oct 2014 #21
Well thank god he had access to a gun TBF Oct 2014 #19
more info: Blue_Tires Oct 2014 #20
Turned the gun on himself? Did the teacher intervene and grab or push the kids gun hand ? scarystuffyo Oct 2014 #22
No Action_Patrol Oct 2014 #25
Why did he shoot his own cousins? Tragic on every level. catbyte Oct 2014 #27
Brutal Action_Patrol Oct 2014 #28
Just two lonely kids in school, right before geometry, my friend Jimmy lost his cool... DreamGypsy Oct 2014 #31
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