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In reply to the discussion: WTF? Alan Grayson's estranged wife is getting food stamps [View all]IdaBriggs
(10,559 posts)CALL A PROFESSIONAL.
This is not about being a villain - this is about being a responsible grown-up. She can have the bill sent "to the landlord" if she doesn't have the funds, and then the court can fuss about who is going to take responsibility for it.
Children should not live with mold. If she can't figure out how to fix that, she probably shouldn't have custody.
No one has to live in "slum lord" conditions - there are legal remedies to correct the situation, and the fact she is NOT availing herself of them makes her look like an idiot to anyone with half a brain.
Mold = Bad. Phone call to Fix = GOOD.
You seem to have an agenda, and frankly, it doesn't appear to be "the best interests of the children" (who shouldn't be living in a moldy house).