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yourmovemonkey

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37. Prayers to your family, H2O Man
Sun Nov 16, 2014, 11:50 PM
Nov 2014

I spent this past March in a court room for 2 and a half weeks, while an inexperienced ADA bungled the prosecution of my brother's killer. There were reams of hard evidence, including a blood test that showed a cocktail of drugs that were in the killer's system when he drove my brother off the road. His admission to the police was deemed inadmissible at a pretrial hearing. Ultimately, the jury only found him guilty of driving while impaired, but failed us on the manslaughter count. It's a total contradiction. Everyone in law enforcement that I spoke to said they had never seen a verdict like ours.

I arranged a letter writing campaign to try and influence the sentencing. I also gave a very impassioned victim's impact statement on the day. The judge recognized the miscarriage that had occurred, and did the best he could by sentencing him to the maximum.

One year.

That's all someone gets for tearing apart a family. That's all someone gets for making me have to try and comfort my elderly parents when they begin sobbing every holiday. Their hearts are broken, and I'm constantly reminded that there is nothing I can do.

I'm not too far from you. This happened in Saratoga county.

Please don't ever apologize for trying to help your family as much as you can. I certainly understand.

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Op-Ed [View all] H2O Man Nov 2014 OP
Please don't apologize for posting on this.. Your DU family is concerned and appreciates the updates hlthe2b Nov 2014 #1
Thank you so much. H2O Man Nov 2014 #5
I have to think that the truth will prevail... hlthe2b Nov 2014 #8
I would like to agree with this so very very much. Raine1967 Nov 2014 #23
K&R!!! Ditto! Dustlawyer Nov 2014 #27
We are with you at this difficult time WaterMan malaise Nov 2014 #2
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #11
That would be wonderful malaise Nov 2014 #18
Thank you for updating. onecaliberal Nov 2014 #3
Thanks. H2O Man Nov 2014 #12
I'm sure it will be a small relief onecaliberal Nov 2014 #15
Your Op-Ed is excellent... Spazito Nov 2014 #4
Yes, it certainly is... hlthe2b Nov 2014 #6
Thank you, my Friend. H2O Man Nov 2014 #14
I am glad your OpEd is already having positive effects... Spazito Nov 2014 #35
You are family, and we want to know. Hekate Nov 2014 #7
Thank you! H2O Man Nov 2014 #20
k&r... spanone Nov 2014 #9
Thanks! H2O Man Nov 2014 #31
Keep us updated... madamvlb Nov 2014 #10
Let me know H2O Man Nov 2014 #32
In the next few weeks.... madamvlb Nov 2014 #42
Excellent Op-Ed panader0 Nov 2014 #13
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #33
I appreciate your updates, and your reasonableness & honesty. I'm not sure if I'd be so restrained. NBachers Nov 2014 #16
Good question. H2O Man Nov 2014 #17
Yeah, Guzy seems to have the entire procedure down pretty well. Not exactly a wedding-night virgin NBachers Nov 2014 #21
Hang in there. Raine1967 Nov 2014 #24
There are a number H2O Man Nov 2014 #34
Damn, I keep forgetting how close this is.... daleanime Nov 2014 #19
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #46
appreciate the update... handmade34 Nov 2014 #22
Your op-ed is exceptional. pacalo Nov 2014 #25
Excellent. raven mad Nov 2014 #26
Even it times of loss and morning, you aspire to teach......... Half-Century Man Nov 2014 #28
Thank you. elleng Nov 2014 #29
An excellent op end, H2O Man... ms liberty Nov 2014 #30
For me, this is something of a "local story". FourScore Nov 2014 #36
Prayers to your family, H2O Man yourmovemonkey Nov 2014 #37
Thank You for Sharing Your Family's Difficult Story Again Oldtimeralso Nov 2014 #38
You know, H20 Man Iwillnevergiveup Nov 2014 #39
I admire you MannyGoldstein Nov 2014 #40
Jefferson thanks you. Bernardo de La Paz Nov 2014 #41
powerful -- and yes the photo adds. nashville_brook Nov 2014 #43
Keep writing about this, I want to sse this thing through with you even if its long distance support marble falls Nov 2014 #44
The link to the Op Ed did not work for me. zeemike Nov 2014 #45
I certainly support your struggle to make sense of this tragedy, and greatly admire your FailureToCommunicate Nov 2014 #47
Thank you. H2O Man Nov 2014 #54
I can't imagine your grief BrotherIvan Nov 2014 #48
Thank you, Brother Ivan! H2O Man Nov 2014 #53
Whatever support you need, whatever we can give long distance, just ask BrotherIvan Nov 2014 #55
I hope that you're not one of the last of the grown-ups Mopar151 Nov 2014 #49
Thank you so much. H2O Man Nov 2014 #52
My best wishes on a fitting and speedy resolution on this case. sybylla Nov 2014 #50
My four siblings H2O Man Nov 2014 #51
My husband's family are staunch Dems and long-time farmers. sybylla Nov 2014 #57
I suspect that H2O Man Nov 2014 #59
I bet you're right. sybylla Nov 2014 #60
K&R gademocrat7 Nov 2014 #56
Great Read Sir ProfessorGAC Nov 2014 #58
K&R. My heart goes out to you and yours. myrna minx Nov 2014 #61
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