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In reply to the discussion: Two Words....Sex Contract [View all]dilby
(2,273 posts)38. It's a start but missing the key stuff I think you need a contract for.
And that being BDSM stuff, I have been with women in the past who were into some alternative forms of play but I would not do it because I was always worried that they could come back and say I did XYZ to them and I would be in prison after that. Something like this would have changed my mind knowing I had some flimsy form of protection.
The other thing I can see as a problem is that this contract would need to be signed before every time you have sex. Just because a girl agreed to the contract once does not mean the guy can then rape her everyday after that and say well we had a contract.
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About two years ago, one of the college was wanting their students to ask similar questions before
Hoppy
Nov 2014
#18
Since a participant has the right to change their mind at any time, how is this useful?
brooklynite
Nov 2014
#14
There is no other situation where people don't understand when someone doesn't want to do something
gollygee
Nov 2014
#19
Sheldon will no doubt present one to Amy, if their relationship ever gets to that point.
Sheldon Cooper
Nov 2014
#35
Isn't this something like what Christian had Anna sign in 50 Shades of Gray ... ?
Tuesday Afternoon
Nov 2014
#32
like I could give a shit what goes on with you and your wife. sheesh.
Tuesday Afternoon
Nov 2014
#40