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daredtowork

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2. A lot of people are flailing - they just don't know what to do
Sun Dec 7, 2014, 01:46 AM
Dec 2014

Honestly, I think part of the problem is they've been asked to vote for "who we can get elected" one too many times, but then putting a particular party in power doesn't seem to result in any action that comes back to helping them. What is all the politicking for? What is your vote for? Why are you donating money to this and that? Why are you volunteering your time? Why is the media all lies? Why can't you get help when you need it?

There is a sense of free-floating dis-empowerment There is a sense of people pointing the finger and blaming each other for not marching, not uprising, not forcing change to happen somehow. There is a sense of disorientation - where to go to EFFECTIVELY make change because real life is so busy and exhausting, and we're tired of wasting out time. There is a sense of fear: making the wrong move could cost us our job - surveillance has a long reach, the Internet has a long memory, how will we recover to feed our family if we "make trouble" and there is no one else around to have our back?

This is the malaise.

But if you are around where the protests are happening right now, you will feel re-energized. These protests are action. These protests carry the seeds of change. These protests are hope.

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Eventually it will go over the edge and all hell will break lose. I don't know what that RKP5637 Dec 2014 #1
I was actually able to school a tea party type conservatice friend today on what's really going on. ChisolmTrailDem Dec 2014 #9
I had a somewhat similar experience with a Tea Party type...... socialist_n_TN Dec 2014 #25
You're right, and it's happening now. Jackpine Radical Dec 2014 #33
A lot of people are flailing - they just don't know what to do daredtowork Dec 2014 #2
Well said! We can NEVER give up hope, never, never, never! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2014 #4
good post, welcome to DU. nt grasswire Dec 2014 #10
There are times we have to back off and let our minds and bodies heaal and rejuvenate. No Vested Interest Dec 2014 #3
Really good advice, IMO. I remember I had a sick friend once - closeupready Dec 2014 #5
+1 freshwest Dec 2014 #15
K&R DeSwiss Dec 2014 #6
Unplug the TV! oldandhappy Dec 2014 #7
Well, take heart. It's probably going to worse going forward. jtuck004 Dec 2014 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author merrily Dec 2014 #13
I hear ya... defacto7 Dec 2014 #11
+1 F4lconF16 Dec 2014 #23
That's actually pretty close to what I decided to do...... socialist_n_TN Dec 2014 #24
As it was, as it always will be. This civilization is no more unique than the last. DRoseDARs Dec 2014 #12
Hi, diabeticman. Yes, things are frustrating, but we have to merrily Dec 2014 #14
+1 awesome suggestions LiberalLoner Dec 2014 #19
Thanks. I hope they help diabeticman. Where is he, I wonder? merrily Dec 2014 #32
I agree! PasadenaTrudy Dec 2014 #31
Helping my wife with her mother. Sorry. This is the first time all day had a chance to read and diabeticman Dec 2014 #41
To worries, the media will move on and all of this will be forgotten soon.... Spitfire of ATJ Dec 2014 #16
There's so many nuances in what's going on right now that it's hard to Ykcutnek Dec 2014 #17
I wish I could cheer you and your wife up, but... 99Forever Dec 2014 #18
So true lake loon Dec 2014 #20
Your wife is right. AngryAmish Dec 2014 #21
Speaking of first world problems leftymon Dec 2014 #28
Are yous about to die ova thea? If not, you can't give up. lonestarnot Dec 2014 #22
I know EXACTLY how she feels....I felt the same exact way about us after serving Jury duty VanillaRhapsody Dec 2014 #26
Sounds like you and your wife leftymon Dec 2014 #27
Sounds like you choose the first opportunities to miss the point of the OP... MrMickeysMom Dec 2014 #30
I wasn't addressing the jury person leftymon Dec 2014 #34
In fact, you weren't addressing that... MrMickeysMom Dec 2014 #36
Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2014 #38
Yeah… ? MrMickeysMom Dec 2014 #39
Yet, we have to keep PasadenaTrudy Dec 2014 #29
Show your wife pictures of what a real police state looks like joeglow3 Dec 2014 #35
Like this one? MrMickeysMom Dec 2014 #37
Close joeglow3 Dec 2014 #40
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