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Boreal

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34. I have nothing but empathy

Reply to Systematic Chaos (Original post)

Mon Dec 22, 2014, 11:43 PM

Dec 2014

Chaos, I don't know you and had not read your story (linked in your OP). OMG, what an unbelievable ordeal you and your wife have been through and are going through. Your personal story shows how when we are challenged in one way that we need help in many, many areas and there is so damn little to be found. If a thread is done here to raise funds, should you need that, please message me. I'm an infrequent poster but I would definitely chip in (though I am below poverty level, myself). Lots of little contributions, and maybe a couple of substantial ones, could easily amount to something that could be really helpful.

It wasn't clear to me if you are back home now or not. I hope you are or are very soon. You, your sweet wife and fur babies should be together.

May you and Jeanette both heal completely and be on your way to improved health and relief from stress, pain and worry.

*hugs*

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Nearly 7 months in the hospital and/or long-term facilities has me feeling down. Got a moment? [View all] Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 OP

Sending good thoughts KT2000 Dec 2014 #1

Thank you, KT2000! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #35

So very sorry to hear all that you have been through and Marie Marie Dec 2014 #2

Hugs are always appreciated! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #36

I hope that 2015 will see a huge improvement for you. brer cat Dec 2014 #3

Thank you! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #37

Thanks for being my friend XemaSab Dec 2014 #4

Ditto! Very much so! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #38

Hang in there Tsiyu Dec 2014 #5

Thank you, Tsiyu! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #39

You are babylonsister Dec 2014 #6

Wow, thank you so much, babylonsister! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #40

Wishing you good health and great happiness, starting right now. Zorra Dec 2014 #7

Thank you, Zorra! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #41

Wishes for good healing. Hugs. 840high Dec 2014 #8

Thank you 840high, and right back at ya! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #42

Please let us know how we can help BrotherIvan Dec 2014 #9

As I have said upthread, if it comes down to no other options... Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #43

If you are in the hospital now, work with your social worker BrotherIvan Dec 2014 #59

. marym625 Dec 2014 #10

thank you marym625, and same to you! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #44

Hugs shenmue Dec 2014 #11

Hugs and a happy 2015 back at ya, shenmue! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #45

My mom lost her leg last fall -- about a month after my father died! villager Dec 2014 #12

Thank you, and same to you, villager!! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #46

Anesthesia five times!? villager Dec 2014 #90

Yeah, 5 times. Once for the amputation in 2013. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #91

And best of luck to you, right back! villager Dec 2014 #92

If you're willing to, a2liberal Dec 2014 #13

Fundraiser homegirl Dec 2014 #19

If I'm going to have to go the fundraiser route... Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #49

Thank you, a2liberal! I most certainly will, if it comes to that! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #47

What a frustrating roller coaster ride. oldandhappy Dec 2014 #14

Thank you, oldandhappy. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #50

You have such courage to endure all this. I'm sincerely sorry about your health. lexington filly Dec 2014 #15

Thank you so much, lexington filly! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #51

Perhaps your local St.Vincent dePaul society can help you with the bed. No Vested Interest Dec 2014 #16

I don't know if the men's homeless shelter here in Vegas... Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #52

I hope 2015 is great for you malaise Dec 2014 #17

Thanks, and same to you malaise! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #53

Hopes and prayers for you and your Jeanette Hekate Dec 2014 #18

I certainly hope so, Hekate. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #54

sending healing thoughts and vibes for a much happier, healthier 2015. your du family is niyad Dec 2014 #20

Very much appreciated, niyad. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #55

Sending you well wishes for a much better 2015! sinkingfeeling Dec 2014 #21

Thank you, sinkingfeeling! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #56

I've been there and done that myself. I hope you go home soon. :) deafskeptic Dec 2014 #22

So you know very well what this is like. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #60

Thanks for your advice. deafskeptic Dec 2014 #79

I am very glad to hear that... Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #84

Please set up a fundraiser. DUers roody Dec 2014 #23

Thank you, roody! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #61

My family has similar hotrod0808 Dec 2014 #24

Well damn...I'm SO SORRY for the loss of your beloved daughter! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #62

Your local independent living center should be able to spring you KamaAina Dec 2014 #25

Thank you so much for this information, KamaAina. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #63

De nada. KamaAina Dec 2014 #81

Wishing you improved health and other good things. merrily Dec 2014 #26

And I wish the same for you, merrily! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #64

Thank you. Best wishes. merrily Dec 2014 #88

Wishing you a speedy recovery. In the meantime, Hoppy Dec 2014 #27

Check your inbox in the next couple days! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #65

Hi Chaos, stage left Dec 2014 #28

Thank you, stage left. Thank you very much! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #66

Proud of this caring community. cilla4progress Dec 2014 #29

Thank you, cilla4progress! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #67

kick Liberal_in_LA Dec 2014 #30

Thank you for the kick, Liberal_in_LA! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #68

I have to admire anyone who has been through what you have and can keep going Pakid Dec 2014 #31

Thank you very kindly, Pakid. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #69

Sending you hugs PumpkinAle Dec 2014 #32

Thank you, PumpkinAle! And a wonderful 2015 to you, too! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #70

friend lavenderdiva Dec 2014 #33

Thank you so much, lavenderdiva! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #71

I have nothing but empathy Boreal Dec 2014 #34

Thank you so much, Boreal! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #72

Is it possible that Medicare Boreal Dec 2014 #74

We tried to have the social worker at Sunrise Hospital get me approved... Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #77

That is disgusting Boreal Dec 2014 #78

I really like that idea, Boreal. Thank you! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #82

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I've heard much about Vitamin C before. I figure it most likely can't hurt to try it! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #89

are you able to take any kind of exercise and have you tried an inflatable 'doughnut' around the leg NewDeal_Dem Dec 2014 #86

2014 was the worst year of my life. I echo your sentiments about 2015. God bless us, everyone. WinkyDink Dec 2014 #48

Thank you so much, WinkyDink!! Man, I'm sooo sorry to hear about your 2014! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #73

Husband died; best friend died; mother twice to hospital for operations (she's 90!); other friend's WinkyDink Dec 2014 #80

I'm beyond words, but I'll try anyway. Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #83

Love and peace. I won't forget. And I extend the same invitation to you. WinkyDink Dec 2014 #85

your words have such a gentle kindness about them Sheepshank Dec 2014 #57

Wow, Sheepshank -- thank you so much for this response!! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #75

Sending Healing Thoughts vankuria Dec 2014 #58

Oh WOW, vankuria. I'm so happy for your brother and great nephew for pulling through! Systematic Chaos Dec 2014 #76

Thank-you for your sweet thoughts and wishes! vankuria Dec 2014 #94

Keep on fighting! Quantess Dec 2014 #93