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In reply to the discussion: Why Is Population Growth Seldom Discussed? [View all]davidpdx
(22,000 posts)Given that conservatives have pretty much declared a war on birth control and choice in general. Someone should tell them that Mormon underwear isn't the solution for everything. (sorry, couldn't resist an Romney joke for old time sake).
Couples should have an active conversation about how many children they want and then after they have them make sure they are not going to have any more by some means of birth control (men it is not going to hurt your manhood to go out and have a vasectomy).
I know this has been discussed on DU a few times in the context of people deciding not to have children (I'd go look for the thread, but I'm feeling lazy). People discount it as selfish or mean, but if those who didn't want to have kids made sure they didn't the population in the US would be much less than it is. I hate to say it, some are not fit to be parents (myself included). I've talked to a couple of female friends from the United States who are married to Korean men (btw for those that don't know I live in Korea and am married to a Korean woman and do not have kids. When you get married here you are expected to have kids. So we are viewed as strange) and they said they simply do not feel the urge to be a mother.
I'm sure there are many other ways this topic can be discussed. I just wanted to point out that this is one way of going about it.