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104. The only way to stop a bully since the dawn of time.

Sun Jan 18, 2015, 03:10 PM

Jan 2015

Adults trying to "talk to" a bully will only make it worse for the kid.

You have to knock the snot out of their face.

Sad but true.

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Bully Gets Destroyed After Mocking Schoolmate�s Dead Sister NSFW [View all] UglyGreed Jan 2015 OP

The girl should be arrested and spend some jail time. trumad Jan 2015 #1

it's called a breaking point... lame54 Jan 2015 #4

If not longer. LiberalArkie Jan 2015 #7

Which one? H2O Man Jan 2015 #9

H trumad Jan 2015 #20

BS. I was bullied for almost three years in High School. Daily unbelievable Hell Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #18

Well I'm glad you didn't kill them... trumad Jan 2015 #21

My only regret is not doing enough damage to the leader. Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #23

Wow, just wow, you are a wanna be little psychopath, aren't you? Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #151

I went to Jr High with a girl AgingAmerican Jan 2015 #159

I was pulled out of middle school due to bullying, I was beaten up on an almost daily basis... Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #162

This is disguisting. You are a violent and barbaric individual. NCTraveler Jan 2015 #158

Were you bullied? AgingAmerican Jan 2015 #160

Welcome to the Human Race Telcontar Jan 2015 #161

Spoken like someone who most like was the bully joeglow3 Jan 2015 #165

The funny thing was my Mother kept going to the school and they would do nothing Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #24

I think you did a great service for the populace. Perhaps the idea of torturing someone else... BlueJazz Jan 2015 #43

...thanks Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #70

But...But...I like Pretentious dribble....That's 90 percent of my shitty posts. BlueJazz Jan 2015 #95

My bad Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #111

Hey! I appologize Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #144

No big deal. I just thought that maybe you were having a bad day. BlueJazz Jan 2015 #145

Your praise of violence is disgusting. phil89 Jan 2015 #33

Your lack of understanding is confusing. Gemini Cat Jan 2015 #34

Lol...! So glad to know your the arbitrator of morals Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #35

Someone really needs to have been there to understand it. Frank Cannon Jan 2015 #47

Your dead on. These guys terrorized everyone. Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #52

I know this is kind of Off topic, but... Stellar Jan 2015 #156

People like you are the reason bullies exist Downtown Hound Jan 2015 #114

I don't agree with calling anyone a pansy, but Jamastiene Jan 2015 #137

I view people like you as worse than bullies. You are enablers of bullies. Katashi_itto Jan 2015 #143

I'm sorry, who was "defending themselves" in the video above? n/t Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #150

I am guessing you and I will have two different answers to that question joeglow3 Jan 2015 #167

Let me put it this way, no one deserves to get beat up, for any reason whatsoever. Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #170

Let me tell you a story joeglow3 Jan 2015 #174

Sadly I have to agree with you SteveG Jan 2015 #49

Cool story alcibiades_mystery Jan 2015 #66

Good for you! Bullying can ruin ones life; the effects are Flatulo Jan 2015 #138

Oh, I don't know. joshdawg Jan 2015 #32

Violence is never phil89 Jan 2015 #37

Well, then, what would you do? joshdawg Jan 2015 #39

Something tells me you were the bully back in the day joeglow3 Jan 2015 #168

I wouldn't convict Renew Deal Jan 2015 #42

Sometimes you reach a point when it's just too much. polly7 Jan 2015 #48

I'd add that everyone who stood around watching a defenseless person get beaten should be ashamed. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2015 #65

She wasn't defenseless. nt. polly7 Jan 2015 #68

She was no longer defending herself. Had it been a boxing match; the referee would have stopped it. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2015 #78

The girl giving her an ass-kicking was egged on and took it too far, polly7 Jan 2015 #92

This message was self-deleted by its author Desert805 Jan 2015 #139

Bullshit Downtown Hound Jan 2015 #115

Internet tough guys.. trumad Jan 2015 #117

Or, a realist who has endured what that person has endure joeglow3 Jan 2015 #169

Unfortunately, that's all that some people understand MannyGoldstein Jan 2015 #131

But but but malaise Jan 2015 #2

yep never any shortage of hypocrisy on du belzabubba333 Jan 2015 #41

one could if he had no sense dsc Jan 2015 #55

you mean your definition of sense b/c the two situations while not the same seem very similar to me belzabubba333 Jan 2015 #63

Or...one could see the bully as fundamentalist religion. ForgoTheConsequence Jan 2015 #83

What did you just say? sibelian Jan 2015 #93

Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....... tabasco Jan 2015 #112

Well you also have the case in Florida exboyfil Jan 2015 #3

"Kick her in the face!" Stephen Retired Jan 2015 #5

Why didn't any other classmates Ilsa Jan 2015 #6

Now see ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #10

The way I see it... trumad Jan 2015 #19

Agreed. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #28

Agree. That was egregious. tblue Jan 2015 #94

Cops do. I see videos all the time of cops kicking people--often handcuffed, tblue37 Jan 2015 #129

. MohRokTah Jan 2015 #8

Exactly what I thought of!! 7962 Jan 2015 #13

omg me too.. yuiyoshida Jan 2015 #116

Sometimes a good old fashioned asskicking is in order. PeteSelman Jan 2015 #11

Where were the adults? teachers? parents? vlyons Jan 2015 #12

How do we know they didn't report the problem? sarge43 Jan 2015 #16

This is what happens Bettie Jan 2015 #58

That doesn't work. They learn bullying from their parents. alfredo Jan 2015 #31

Wonder how many other people she's bullied? 7962 Jan 2015 #14

It could be a cheap life lesson for both of them glasshouses Jan 2015 #15

I won't watch these "girl fight" videos. cwydro Jan 2015 #17

Are they, in your opinion, worse than "boy fight" videos? whathehell Jan 2015 #22

of course not. cwydro Jan 2015 #27

"Of course not"? whathehell Jan 2015 #38

No it's not. Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #84

Well, when I grew up cwydro Jan 2015 #102

Not where I taught. nt Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #106

I agree BrotherIvan Jan 2015 #113

Actually no not so much. calimary Jan 2015 #90

I'm not going to say I approve FrodosPet Jan 2015 #25

Here's what I don't understand: chervilant Jan 2015 #26

Because a hell of a lot of us were bullied. jeff47 Jan 2015 #57

Catharsis is an interesting reason. chervilant Jan 2015 #71

Didn't watch the video. jeff47 Jan 2015 #73

Well, I cannot watch such videos, chervilant Jan 2015 #81

I was bullied cwydro Jan 2015 #142

I dunno how I'd react if I was that girl being bullied. Inkfreak Jan 2015 #29

I had a short fuse as a kid. If bullied, I'd fight back. alfredo Jan 2015 #30

Apparently The Wizard Jan 2015 #36

It's called....poetic justice.... Bohemianwriter Jan 2015 #40

Kicked in the head? exboyfil Jan 2015 #45

Don't start nothing, won't be nothing. You attack people for your jollies then TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #64

what death? trumad Jan 2015 #119

The potential one feared from the bully getting the script flipped on them the poster was discussing TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #127

I'm assuming you are talking about the girl that STARTED the fight. Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #152

I'm not speaking specifically to this incident but in general about violent bullies TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #180

Violence in response to insults is never acceptable Taitertots Jan 2015 #44

Violence is never a good solution Bettie Jan 2015 #46

Would the bully defenders here prefer suicide? Frank Cannon Jan 2015 #50

I don't know Bettie Jan 2015 #53

That's a lot of fallacy packed into such a small space Major Nikon Jan 2015 #133

Sigh. Frank Cannon Jan 2015 #134

I'm not sure how obfuscation fixes your fallacies Major Nikon Jan 2015 #135

Difference is we have a society that tries to stop rape and murder joeglow3 Jan 2015 #177

Support whoever you want and that's fine Major Nikon Jan 2015 #179

Actually I think a lot more is done these days exboyfil Jan 2015 #51

More is done sometimes Bettie Jan 2015 #56

Sorry but your kid doesn't know how to deal with it but rather how to suck it up TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #61

I cannot tell my child that violence is the solution Bettie Jan 2015 #74

No, teaching a child to defend themselves is NOTHING like allowing your child to be a bully TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #107

Amen joeglow3 Jan 2015 #178

As it should, thank you for fostering a little better world. TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #181

Fundamentally, the problem is bullying is a learned behavior. jeff47 Jan 2015 #59

i just dont agree qazplm Jan 2015 #85

so the takeaway so far in this thread is... trumad Jan 2015 #54

Yes, time started at the beginning of the video. jeff47 Jan 2015 #60

And also, because someone is called a bully on the internet, it absolutely must be true. chrisa Jan 2015 #62

Like I said ....... there are times when eventually the hurt and rage becomes overwhelming. polly7 Jan 2015 #67

I won't condone that but once the bully actually bullies and I mean gets physical then you bet your TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #69

Ender, that you? nt tblue37 Jan 2015 #132

Funny Desert805 Jan 2015 #140

agreed ... as if there wavesofeuphoria Jan 2015 #75

To read DU's discourse on bullying, you'd have to believe that everyone is bullied for years alcibiades_mystery Jan 2015 #86

keyboard warriors... trumad Jan 2015 #91

It's sad that you actually think that. NutmegYankee Jan 2015 #97

OK alcibiades_mystery Jan 2015 #99

I take it no one is bullied in your fantasy world? NutmegYankee Jan 2015 #100

Very obviously, bullying exists, and some is even severe and persistent alcibiades_mystery Jan 2015 #103

LOL, the good ole "it didn't happen to me, therefore it doesn't happen". NutmegYankee Jan 2015 #108

That's not what I said at all alcibiades_mystery Jan 2015 #109

Where are your stats? Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jan 2015 #153

wow lunasun Jan 2015 #154

Thank you! I thought I was just Codeine Jan 2015 #146

Not cynical. Just ignorant and lazy joeglow3 Jan 2015 #176

To read this post, you are an willfully ignorant joeglow3 Jan 2015 #175

There is only one thing a bully understands and that is intimidation. Rex Jan 2015 #72

I agree with this part..."The girl grabs the bully, pulls her down, then becomes the bully." Iggo Jan 2015 #76

The video shows a beat-down that ends with a defenseless person getting kicked repeatedly while down cherokeeprogressive Jan 2015 #77

Not guilty by reason of temporary insanity (grieving sister). aikoaiko Jan 2015 #79

I suspect with the French terrorists could have used the same defense. trumad Jan 2015 #80

Was Charlie Hebdo mocking the deaths of their sisters? aikoaiko Jan 2015 #82

no but they could say they were temporarily insane trumad Jan 2015 #88

If that analogy makes sense to you, and I can understand why it would, so be it. aikoaiko Jan 2015 #96

The difference is the death of the sister is the trigger not the mocking WestCoastLib Jan 2015 #141

Some have been falling all over themselves here to apologize for the folks who killed cartoonists Warren DeMontague Jan 2015 #128

When bullying is relentless Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #87

is there anything that proves it was relentless? trumad Jan 2015 #89

the "bully" does not seem phased GreatGazoo Jan 2015 #98

title should be 'revenge porn for the bullied' belzabubba333 Jan 2015 #101

Indeed alcibiades_mystery Jan 2015 #105

The only way to stop a bully since the dawn of time. alphafemale Jan 2015 #104

Amazing how many sociopaths are on this board, excusing violence. n/t Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #110

yep.. trumad Jan 2015 #118

Hope she gets used to a wheelchair. n/t dilby Jan 2015 #120

Post removed Post removed Jan 2015 #123

You mad? dilby Jan 2015 #126

You know, this is a post I'm going to save and pull out for EVERY discussion you have here in the... Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #148

i would expect no less from someone who sides with a bully. dilby Jan 2015 #157

I'm sorry, you are the psychopath advocating for a child to be permanently handicapped... Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #163

And you are exactly like a bully. dilby Jan 2015 #164

Excuse, who is the bully again? Who is cheering on the beating of a child here? n/t Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #171

I've noticed this too. Gemini Cat Jan 2015 #173

From one of the asshole club .... polly7 Jan 2015 #166

No, I am circumstantially recommending violence as the most effective and logical response to TheKentuckian Jan 2015 #121

Actually, I wrote an OP about it. Humanist_Activist Jan 2015 #124

I think they both need counseling Skittles Jan 2015 #122

I'm about to get a hide.. trumad Jan 2015 #125

Well, I'm of the belief that there is no such as a fair fight. Lobo27 Jan 2015 #130

my son stopped it in 5th grade MFM008 Jan 2015 #136

Meh Capt. Obvious Jan 2015 #147

OF COURSE the appropriate response to hurtful words is to beat the person who said them senseless, Nye Bevan Jan 2015 #149

Why didn't the school do anything abelenkpe Jan 2015 #155

World star! Jesus Malverde Jan 2015 #172