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NM_Birder

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16. If the girls played the game through to the end,
Tue Jan 20, 2015, 02:57 PM
Jan 2015

even while being pasted with a score like that,......then the lesson they need to know is sinking in. regardless the odds, DO.NOT.QUIT.

Don't quit on yourself, don't quit on your teammates. Don't blame the ref, and don't blame the other team superior skill, work as hard as you can, stick together, play your game and don't quit.

Rely on yourself, don't depend on someone else changing the rules for you, give it all you got regardless the score. High school basketball will be irrelevant in short order, but sticking together and not quitting is the lesson here, not "but someone should have stopped the game to keep the losing team's self esteem in place".

There are winners, losers,... and fighters. Fighters may lose a game but are always winners, losers who quit don't understand the team mentality and quitting will always be the option out. these girls are fighters that may not win the games, but in the home lives the article describes, sticking together regardless the odds makes them winners.

If you played ball, then you know it's not just about the score, they lost every game they played, ..... but they still show up and played as a team. THAT is what high school athletics is about, surprised you don't see that with 50 years experience.



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162-2 [View all] Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 OP
I shouldn't play ice hockey... brooklynite Jan 2015 #1
Your charade is evident to anyone with open eyes. ret5hd Jan 2015 #30
Don't be shy: please enlighten every one brooklynite Jan 2015 #31
You already have. ret5hd Jan 2015 #32
Thanks for continuing absolutely nothing beyond a cry for attention. joeglow3 Jan 2015 #42
My youngest son madokie Jan 2015 #2
Sports does help develop kids. Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #21
Small schools especially face lopsided scores all the time. Brickbat Jan 2015 #3
Nobody wants pity. Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #22
Michael Anderson said he asked for running time in the third quarter. Brickbat Jan 2015 #24
If that was electoral votes against the republicans TheCowsCameHome Jan 2015 #4
that they used a full-court press the entire first half - leading 104-1 at halftime - is disgusting DrDan Jan 2015 #5
The Refs Should Have Called The Game ProfessorGAC Jan 2015 #6
Losing builds character...as does solidering through when things aren't going well... brooklynite Jan 2015 #8
Patronizing Nonsense ProfessorGAC Jan 2015 #9
Then, define an acceptable loss that's not based on a completely arbitrary measure brooklynite Jan 2015 #10
bullshit question. you don't even have to put a number on it.. frylock Jan 2015 #11
Okay, they play easy and the score is 100 - 22... brooklynite Jan 2015 #12
you clearly know fuckall about the game frylock Jan 2015 #13
Temper, temper... brooklynite Jan 2015 #15
I know that the net is too fucking low... snooper2 Jan 2015 #29
losing is quitting. These girls didn't quit, that makes them winners. NM_Birder Jan 2015 #17
swimming, we went up against a team that was not good. our coach put us all in races we never swam, seabeyond Jan 2015 #7
A good way to handle the situation. brer cat Jan 2015 #33
The Arroyo Valley High girls basketball teams needs run laps Capt. Obvious Jan 2015 #14
No. Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #19
We do not train to be merciful here. Capt. Obvious Jan 2015 #20
They aren't in the streets. Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #23
I wasn't aware anyone was killed dumbcat Jan 2015 #28
Sweep the leg, Johnny! SwankyXomb Jan 2015 #26
Second place is no place Capt. Obvious Jan 2015 #27
If the girls played the game through to the end, NM_Birder Jan 2015 #16
I pointed out that the inferior team should not be patronized nor Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #18
I commend the girls for showing up to any games at all. NM_Birder Jan 2015 #36
I don't understand why t he refs didn't just dumbcat Jan 2015 #25
Possibly the dumbest post ever or at least in the running. nt Are_grits_groceries Jan 2015 #34
What? Why? Do you want losers to feel bad? dumbcat Jan 2015 #35
Greatest username ever. Spot on. NM_Birder Jan 2015 #38
You believe personal insults are dumbcat Jan 2015 #40
Nothing to fix, NM_Birder Jan 2015 #43
I had to read that post again just to be sure it wasn't sarcastic humor. NM_Birder Jan 2015 #37
<sigh> I guess it isn't going to work dumbcat Jan 2015 #41
Oh, c'mon, grits. It was only 161-2. KamaAina Jan 2015 #39
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