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inanna

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15. I was seventeen when I left home
Fri Jan 30, 2015, 03:00 AM
Jan 2015

and very poor. Not really mature enough at that point to be on my own, but circumstances being what they were... I had no other option. It was sink or swim and so I grew up a LOT in a very short period of time.

I really learned how to stretch a dollar, and that knowledge has served me well - even once things improved.

Those cheap frozen meat pies? They were a gourmet feast for me. My Grandma used to buy me scores of them when they were on sale. I still love 'em. Learned to stock up on tuna when it was on sale. Same with peanut butter and eggs. Learned there were a lot of things I didn't need - even though I may have wanted them. Example: fabric softener is nice, but certainly not a priority when broke.

I had a little calico cat at the time: I quickly learned to put the cat before myself - a major switch from what I'd been like before (me selfish me). So kitty always had food - even if the rest of the cupboards were in a very sorry state.

I have never forgotten those lean days. Don't suppose I ever will.

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We lived off what i managed to fish up, for a while in the mid 90's Scootaloo Jan 2015 #1
When I was in my teens and ten cents shy of homeless 2naSalit Jan 2015 #2
good to hear that people helped u when u were in need Liberal_in_LA Jan 2015 #6
There were and are... 2naSalit Jan 2015 #17
Back in the 80's Binkie The Clown Jan 2015 #3
I was broke and all I had was a box of bran cereal.... Boxerfan Jan 2015 #4
lol. cant help but laugh at that story Liberal_in_LA Jan 2015 #5
I have just spent the past several HOURS inanna Jan 2015 #7
interesting stories at the link. i have bookmarked it for reading later Liberal_in_LA Jan 2015 #10
UNCONSCIONABLE in the United States of America. woo me with science Jan 2015 #8
Agree completely NoJusticeNoPeace Jan 2015 #28
There is another post on DU daredtowork Jan 2015 #37
A story about the Great Depression I heard once, ErikJ Jan 2015 #9
My dream? catnhatnh Jan 2015 #11
Oh, rummy and his ilk know lots of Americans live in poverty project_bluebook Jan 2015 #13
I hate to say this but Tsiyu Feb 2015 #41
Force him to READ?! You've got Romney where you want him, and all he has to do is READ?! I'D make WinkyDink Jan 2015 #20
As a sociopath, Romney would probably enjoy it. progressoid Jan 2015 #23
You are a BRAVE soul, Liberal in LA forest444 Jan 2015 #12
that storyis both sad and hopeful Liberal_in_LA Jan 2015 #21
Couldn't have said it better forest444 Jan 2015 #22
Kick inanna Jan 2015 #14
I was seventeen when I left home inanna Jan 2015 #15
Even those who KNOW you are poor, "suggest" you buy stuff daredtowork Jan 2015 #16
You don't need to buy an organizer, you can make one! ladyVet Jan 2015 #34
haha, yes - I'm into the idea of making books, too! daredtowork Jan 2015 #35
"stab a hole in each chip bag" central scrutinizer Jan 2015 #18
Dumpsters around here are either locked or progressoid Jan 2015 #24
A couple of things to add from my rough days FLPanhandle Jan 2015 #19
Yeah the bad times suck paying weekly rent at shithole hotels, eating ramin and pasta 3 times ChosenUnWisely Jan 2015 #25
I don't even wanna relive some of what I've been through poverty wise.. JaneyVee Jan 2015 #26
If you haven't seen it, John Oliver totally dismantled the payday loan industry: Initech Jan 2015 #27
I knew a payday loan guy who bragged he was opening shops next to military installations NoJusticeNoPeace Jan 2015 #29
Tattoo Joints, Gun shops, Rent to Own stores, payday loan places and fast food joints ChosenUnWisely Feb 2015 #40
To have to struggle some in life builds a strong foundation. Always have been able Thinkingabout Jan 2015 #30
K/R Paulie Jan 2015 #31
It is amazing how much "garbage" is not really garbage at all. Jamastiene Jan 2015 #32
"Their own paychecks". Bank of America now charges people to cash a B of A check Recursion Jan 2015 #33
Wells Fargo does, too. daredtowork Jan 2015 #36
Holy crap AYFKM? Recursion Feb 2015 #38
I had an insurance check drawn on BofA so I go to cash it and they wanted $10 to cash it ChosenUnWisely Feb 2015 #39
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