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Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
Thu Apr 26, 2012, 07:08 PM Apr 2012

Need advice concerning a young adult who is harming himself... [View all]

Once a month or so, I monitor Facebook account just to keep tabs on the current trends in the emotional roller coaster of our daughter's life. Call it intrusive, call it invasion of privacy, I call it parenting.

At any rate, tonight there was a post one hour ago from an young man who posted an image of his wrist covered in razor blade scars and dripping fresh blood from new cuts.

My daughter spoke with him in the past after seeing the scars in the library one day, and discretely informed a faculty member; I asked her about it and she seems to sound like it went nowhere fast.

Unfortunately this young man lives in a broken home with an addict mother and a missing father, this is the root cause of his problems he tells our daughter.

Long story short, this young man has listed his cell phone number on his Facebook account. Do I call someone, an ambulance, the police? Who?

This breaks my heart seeing this and I need to help, but how?

Thanks!

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Call 911. Texasgal Apr 2012 #1
No one should ever call 911 without thinking it out first EFerrari Apr 2012 #18
My only suggestion is to contact the school counselor. RebelOne Apr 2012 #2
What if the faculty of the school is part of the problem? Ian David Apr 2012 #9
Unfortunately he is a threat to himself Horse with no Name Apr 2012 #3
Get him this number. ETA: I strongly discourage you from calling 911. Brickbat Apr 2012 #4
Good suggestion, Brickbat. MineralMan Apr 2012 #14
I hope it's helpful, and I hope this man gets the help he needs. Cutting is very hard to treat, and Brickbat Apr 2012 #17
911 harm himself is the name of this nadinbrzezinski Apr 2012 #5
A real dilemma. MineralMan Apr 2012 #6
Thank you for understanding this isn't easy for this young man, or us... Earth_First Apr 2012 #11
I understand. Your daughter is apparently aware of his self harm MineralMan Apr 2012 #13
911, if they don't do anything, then Child Protective Services aikoaiko Apr 2012 #7
The OP said that this is a young adult, so MineralMan Apr 2012 #10
He may not be suicidal... a la izquierda Apr 2012 #8
No advice, just a hug for you and a kick for more exposure.... riderinthestorm Apr 2012 #12
Good on ya! LASlibinSC Apr 2012 #15
911. That behavior could be a symptom of a major psychiatric disorder. slackmaster Apr 2012 #16
I agree with Brickbat....call S.A.F.E. GoldenOldie Apr 2012 #19
remind your daughter that it's not her responsibility to fix this renate Apr 2012 #20
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