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Earth_First

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11. Thank you for understanding this isn't easy for this young man, or us...

Reply to MineralMan (Reply #6)

Thu Apr 26, 2012, 07:25 PM

Apr 2012

or our daughter for that matter.

Calling 911 was my immediate thought, the image I still have in my head is so unbelievably tragic that I couldn't help but almost panic.

After considering this with my wife, and not wanting to make the relationship between this young man and our daughter complicated, after all, she may very well be able to help him, which could be compromised if our alert comes back to her; I think we are leaning towards help from the school guidance/psychologist.

This is so unbelievably difficult...

Thanks, MineralMan

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Need advice concerning a young adult who is harming himself... [View all] Earth_First Apr 2012 OP

Call 911. Texasgal Apr 2012 #1

No one should ever call 911 without thinking it out first EFerrari Apr 2012 #18

My only suggestion is to contact the school counselor. RebelOne Apr 2012 #2

What if the faculty of the school is part of the problem? Ian David Apr 2012 #9

Unfortunately he is a threat to himself Horse with no Name Apr 2012 #3

Get him this number. ETA: I strongly discourage you from calling 911. Brickbat Apr 2012 #4

Good suggestion, Brickbat. MineralMan Apr 2012 #14

I hope it's helpful, and I hope this man gets the help he needs. Cutting is very hard to treat, and Brickbat Apr 2012 #17

911 harm himself is the name of this nadinbrzezinski Apr 2012 #5

A real dilemma. MineralMan Apr 2012 #6

Thank you for understanding this isn't easy for this young man, or us... Earth_First Apr 2012 #11

I understand. Your daughter is apparently aware of his self harm MineralMan Apr 2012 #13

911, if they don't do anything, then Child Protective Services aikoaiko Apr 2012 #7

The OP said that this is a young adult, so MineralMan Apr 2012 #10

He may not be suicidal... a la izquierda Apr 2012 #8

No advice, just a hug for you and a kick for more exposure.... riderinthestorm Apr 2012 #12

Good on ya! LASlibinSC Apr 2012 #15

911. That behavior could be a symptom of a major psychiatric disorder. slackmaster Apr 2012 #16

I agree with Brickbat....call S.A.F.E. GoldenOldie Apr 2012 #19

remind your daughter that it's not her responsibility to fix this renate Apr 2012 #20