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xfundy

(5,105 posts)
22. Revolting.
Thu Dec 22, 2011, 11:58 PM
Dec 2011

Advertisers often rely on sex and youth to sell their shitty products. The field became crowded with advertisers using the same angle, as they could see its effectiveness among competitors, so they intensified: MORE youth, MORE sex. Don't rinse, just repeat, repeat, repeat.

And it's not just in those sickening model contests featuring children (and now even babies) wearing provocative clothing, lipstick, etc. I've seen little girls practicing their "wiles" (which they can't possibly understand--except as something that is expected of them) as far back as 20 years ago; the source had to be their parents, thinking it "cute" for them to do so. I've seen it in my own family, which is composed almost entirely of Southern Batshits. It sickened me then as it does now.

I saw some online video recently showing teenage boys exhibiting similar behavior, mostly around body-image concepts, starving themselves to show their muscles, which will never grow if they starve themselves; younger children egged on to pretend they are "real men" when they're just 3-5 years old and can't possibly understand the adult concepts they're told to ape.

They are all encouraged by their parents, who are most likely (certainly) influenced by a sick f'n media climate (and, again, the "conservatives" push that crap on their kids as much or more than anyone).

I remember a kid I knew in elementary school--he "wanted" to be a Soldier--without even knowing what that meant, much less what it entailed. He wanted to please his parents, as we all do at certain ages.

I didn't keep up with him, so don't know if he came home in a box, an envelope, or whatever. I suspect he was gay, but who knows whether he ever gained enough self awareness to express himself whether it pleased his parents or not.

where did you say that link is???? MindMover Dec 2011 #1
Oops, I'll edit and add it right now. nt Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #3
You are right, Sarah. Mimosa Dec 2011 #2
You're right.TLC is a whorish, bottom-line cable station, and will put anything revolting on the air Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #4
Mimosa Remember Me Dec 2011 #35
And it's rampant. But maybe we women need to get the message out better Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #39
Well stated. nm rhett o rick Dec 2011 #5
Take a closer look at Shirley Temple movies... Demoiselle Dec 2011 #6
True. They also were sexualized. She gave 'come hither' looks, etc. Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #7
Its all common sense, really. undeterred Dec 2011 #8
Well, the sexualization of little girls has become SO rampant, we don't notice it Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #9
I feel sorry for the kids these days. westerebus Dec 2011 #10
Nothing. They, too, are influenced by the media. Studies show the media influences the brain Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #12
Something. westerebus Dec 2011 #21
Now there I agree with you. Parents are not supposed to be the best friend of their children Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #38
I am very inclined to agree with you badtoworse Dec 2011 #23
I don't watch crap like Toddlers And Tiaras. Quartermass Dec 2011 #11
I've watched it twice, and it's sickening. But Toddlers and Tiaras isn't the only show Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #13
When my oldest outgrew toddler sizes laundry_queen Dec 2011 #25
I appreciate you explaining what you went through as you grew up Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #28
Those poor girls laundry_queen Dec 2011 #32
I had a lot of the same issues Dorian Gray Dec 2011 #34
Your mom sounds exactly like the moms of these two girls (now women)! Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #37
My friends are buying "vintage" for their twins Mopar151 Dec 2011 #40
I can't imagine the kind of people... Iggo Dec 2011 #14
You know who I hope watches that show? customerserviceguy Dec 2011 #18
The only people I know that watch the show are women. ZombieHorde Dec 2011 #33
That report is spot on. Thanks. nt Zorra Dec 2011 #15
Thanks, Zorra. nt Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #16
Yep, I agree wholeheartedly. WCGreen Dec 2011 #17
K&R....n/t unkachuck Dec 2011 #19
Some of the girls clothes we get into the thriftstore are really awful in this regard. Sickening. Odin2005 Dec 2011 #20
Oh, no doubt. They are imitation of really degrading women's clothes Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #31
Revolting. xfundy Dec 2011 #22
I agree that the conservatives push this crap more than anyone else in this country Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #30
Is this new? Or news? elias7 Dec 2011 #24
Completely guessing laundry_queen Dec 2011 #26
Yes, to many people obamanut2012 Dec 2011 #27
I've noticed no difference in the degree to which media sexually objectifies women Sarah Ibarruri Dec 2011 #29
Yes and no. Remember Me Dec 2011 #36
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