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In reply to the discussion: A question about rape [View all]Warren DeMontague
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As for the rest, I don't think they're attempts by sneaky would be passed-out-people-fuckers to "find excuses" so much as they are appropriate inane-level responses to stuff like Trumad's inane thread, which is where you found all those, right?...
Honestly, with that, I'm not sure what he's trying to accomplish.
Really, to me, the only appropriate answer to that OP is "okee dokee! whatever you say, coach". Beyond that the thing seems oddly designed to do nothing but ferret out inappropriate responses so that others can make lists of them for future linking and reference.
Not that anyone would do that, of course.
I sure as shit wouldn't go into that thread and mention that something like that happened to me at least once - I passed out, etc, while with someone I was enthusiastically and openly consenting with - when I was in college, and... well, anyway, despite the magic of youthful priapism my feelings on the matter have not changed since that time.
But no, I would not mention that in that thread; been around the DU block too many times to fall for that. Just look what happened to the poor fucker who did.
I don't honestly think any passed out sex is going to be enabled OR prevented based upon what the cranky, statistically generally middle-aged DU demographic does or doesn't say.