Right. I'm doing this. I've been drunk enough to have woken up in bed with another guy

[ismnotwasm]

56. You decide. You.

I used to have regret sex too-- never ever called it rape. Now The time I, very drunk, jumped in a car with a group of young men, who then scared the shit out of me by demanding sex (whereupon I, sitting next to the door opened that motherfucker and threatened to jump out until they let me out, ruining my shoes on the ground flying by and everything)--that would have been rape of course. I have other, far worse examples.

I've woken up with some passed out asshole, thought oh shit and crept out the door taking the booze and extracurriculars with me. Was that rape? No, because I remember my embarrassingly unfortunate intent to get laid, even if I don't remember the act itself.

I also remember men buying me drink after drink, with the intent of getting me drunk and themselves sex. That never worked with me, because I was a hardcore drinker at one time. I'd ditch their asses and go find a friend I liked. But the intent was there, and it did happen to women. The women I ran around with didn't cry rape either- they knew they'd get blamed.

Now, This was more years ago than I like to think but two things are clear, nothing much has changed about drinking behavior and women are sick of sexual predators.