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renate

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20. remind your daughter that it's not her responsibility to fix this
Fri Apr 27, 2012, 09:40 AM
Apr 2012

This is a little OT, but your daughter obviously has a compassionate and caring heart and I don't want her to feel as though it's up to her to make this young man's situation better.

I would recommend against calling 911 simply because if this got into his medical records, a diagnosis of depression can really cause problems with his ability to get insurance later; at least, that's what I was taught about 10 years ago (things might be different now but I'd sure be surprised if they changed for the better, at least for adults with pre-existing conditions). I think informing the school counselor is by far the best place to start--that's what he or she is there for, and it's what he or she is trained for.

You and your daughter are sweetie pies.

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Call 911. Texasgal Apr 2012 #1
No one should ever call 911 without thinking it out first EFerrari Apr 2012 #18
My only suggestion is to contact the school counselor. RebelOne Apr 2012 #2
What if the faculty of the school is part of the problem? Ian David Apr 2012 #9
Unfortunately he is a threat to himself Horse with no Name Apr 2012 #3
Get him this number. ETA: I strongly discourage you from calling 911. Brickbat Apr 2012 #4
Good suggestion, Brickbat. MineralMan Apr 2012 #14
I hope it's helpful, and I hope this man gets the help he needs. Cutting is very hard to treat, and Brickbat Apr 2012 #17
911 harm himself is the name of this nadinbrzezinski Apr 2012 #5
A real dilemma. MineralMan Apr 2012 #6
Thank you for understanding this isn't easy for this young man, or us... Earth_First Apr 2012 #11
I understand. Your daughter is apparently aware of his self harm MineralMan Apr 2012 #13
911, if they don't do anything, then Child Protective Services aikoaiko Apr 2012 #7
The OP said that this is a young adult, so MineralMan Apr 2012 #10
He may not be suicidal... a la izquierda Apr 2012 #8
No advice, just a hug for you and a kick for more exposure.... riderinthestorm Apr 2012 #12
Good on ya! LASlibinSC Apr 2012 #15
911. That behavior could be a symptom of a major psychiatric disorder. slackmaster Apr 2012 #16
I agree with Brickbat....call S.A.F.E. GoldenOldie Apr 2012 #19
remind your daughter that it's not her responsibility to fix this renate Apr 2012 #20
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