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Newsjock

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Sun Feb 8, 2015, 12:55 AM Feb 2015

'Do Gays Unsettle You?' [View all]

Source: New York Times
By Frank Bruni

... A politician who says awful, hateful things about gays and lesbians can still find a warm enough reception and plenty of traction in one of our two major political parties. ... I don’t expect any of them to win the nomination, partly because their particular, pronounced degree of closed-mindedness won’t wash with the number of Americans whose favor they need. Hurray for that.

But I expect that on their way to defeat they’ll turn us gays into punch lines and punching bags. I expect that I’ll hear and watch large audiences cheer and egg them on. It’s a sickening spectacle, if you pay it any heed.

Sarah Kate Ellis wishes that you would. She’s the head of Glaad, a prominent gay rights group, and she and it are doing something important right now. ... Glaad commissioned a Harris Poll late last year. I was given a first look at the results, which underscored how uncomfortable many Americans remain with gay, lesbian and bisexual people — and, even more so, with transgender people.

About 30 percent of the respondents who didn’t identify themselves as gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender said that it would unsettle them to learn that their physician or child’s teacher did. Close to 45 percent said that they would be uneasy about bringing a child to a same-sex wedding. Thirty-six percent feel uncomfortable when they see a same-sex couple hold hands.

Read more: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/02/08/opinion/sunday/frank-bruni-same-sex-marriage-republican-scorn-and-unfinished-work.html

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'Do Gays Unsettle You?' [View all] Newsjock Feb 2015 OP
No. krispos42 Feb 2015 #1
Post removed Post removed Feb 2015 #3
What the...? Iggo Feb 2015 #4
Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2015 #5
Who the...? Iggo Feb 2015 #6
It is rude and nasty repeat troll who needs to find a better hobby uppityperson Feb 2015 #7
MIRT-ified in 7 minutes. Iggo Feb 2015 #9
Unfortunately, she'll be back. And thank you jurors who voted to hide her crap. uppityperson Feb 2015 #10
You're welcome marym625 Feb 2015 #17
Lg? hrmjustin Feb 2015 #18
+ uppityperson Feb 2015 #25
She called myself and a few others the gay mafia. hrmjustin Feb 2015 #26
I knew there was something about you uppityperson Feb 2015 #27
Agreed! hrmjustin Feb 2015 #28
Thanks. marym625 Feb 2015 #53
Show me where I can openly sign up with the Gay Mafia, and I will... NoJusticeNoPeace Feb 2015 #29
Lol. you are now a member! hrmjustin Feb 2015 #30
A bully is someone who wants equal rights, the non bully just cant understand why us bullies dont NoJusticeNoPeace Feb 2015 #31
And LG you will find is a big bully. hrmjustin Feb 2015 #32
No, why is she able to still exist here? I know racists are allowed to post here constantly, same NoJusticeNoPeace Feb 2015 #33
She isn't. For ten years she has been signing up and getting no more that 20 posts in before her hrmjustin Feb 2015 #34
Makes you wonder why she is so attracted to talking to gay people. NoJusticeNoPeace Feb 2015 #35
Gays are not her biggest target. She hates vaccines and she lets you know. hrmjustin Feb 2015 #36
How do you know when it's her? cwydro Feb 2015 #37
Her smily faces and her hatred of vaccines and individual posters. hrmjustin Feb 2015 #38
Dang cwydro Feb 2015 #39
Since i am not on mirt I tend to miss her as well. She mainly shows up on the weekend. hrmjustin Feb 2015 #40
Me too! me too! marym625 Feb 2015 #52
Welcome aboard! hrmjustin Feb 2015 #55
THANKS! marym625 Feb 2015 #56
I didn't know that LG was a homophobe. stevenleser Feb 2015 #46
i think it had more to do with the fact she hates the gay members who have been on mirt. hrmjustin Feb 2015 #47
Pizza Time. Drahthaardogs Feb 2015 #8
Not a bad point to make MFrohike Feb 2015 #2
Not since I was 17 Egnever Feb 2015 #11
The more I hear about it OriginalGeek Feb 2015 #12
Pack your vitamins! Egnever Feb 2015 #13
When you need a vacation after vacation OriginalGeek Feb 2015 #14
I lived there for over 20 years! cwydro Feb 2015 #19
It's on the list for sure OriginalGeek Feb 2015 #23
People in general unsettle me NT Ex Lurker Feb 2015 #15
I remember officially forming my opinion when I saw Anita Bryant in action Skittles Feb 2015 #16
dog she's awful marym625 Feb 2015 #21
These numbers are scary marym625 Feb 2015 #20
When I was younger edhopper Feb 2015 #22
The movie Transamerica might give some perspective. gvstn Feb 2015 #42
Thanks I will look for it. edhopper Feb 2015 #44
Absolutely. gvstn Feb 2015 #45
This is true; edhopper Feb 2015 #54
Yes. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2015 #24
No, but hatred of gays does. Scuba Feb 2015 #41
I don't now, and will never, Sissyk Feb 2015 #43
I don't believe it has anything to do with being gay mythology Feb 2015 #48
Gays do unsettle me. Vattel Feb 2015 #49
I think they're wonderful people Oilwellian Feb 2015 #50
Oh, jeez, no. SheilaT Feb 2015 #51
No, not really Bettie Feb 2015 #57
No Proud Liberal Dem Feb 2015 #58
Nope, had a lesbian rent-mate when I was in the military a couple decades back. haele Feb 2015 #59
Only when my roommate wakes me up at 4 AM having sex with his boyfriend. dilby Feb 2015 #60
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