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In reply to the discussion: Is there anyway now that we can be considered not racist? [View all]bravenak
(34,648 posts)better way to express/explain it. It was only after my many explainations and subsequent apologies that she wrote that post.
I try to be precise, if at all possible. If she felt like I was being gleeful, she shoukd hav simply said so and I would have explained it to her. It is my opinion that when somebody apologizes for hurting me and explains themself, they are probably not being malicious. I would not ever write an op trashing them and twisting their words, words they have explained, and use it to bash them. If an apology and an explaination gets you bashed by 484 people, you may feel a bit angry that your words were twisted and taken out of context by a person who had already recieved an apology and an explaination. What more was I supposed to do? Beg her? Supplicate myself? I didn't even feel she deserved an apology but I was sad that she felt hurt.