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Showing Original Post only (View all)Today, my wife was mistaken for a Muslim. [View all]
https://bluntandcranky.wordpress.com/2015/02/14/today-my-wife-was-mistaken-for-a-muslim/The Blunt and Crankies are on our way home from a vacation with wonderful friends in warm, sunny places. As we stopped for the night in Whereverthehell Kentucky, she wrapped a scarf around her head because, well, its f***ing cold outside. Looked a bit like a hijab, but who cares when youve come from the Florida coast to Freezerville in 36 hours, right?
Wrong. The woman who was misguided enough to marry your humble correspondent is of Irish/Shawnee/Syrian descent, and is frequently taken as a local in whatever country or region in which we are at a given moment. Be it in Central America, Scotland, on a Reservation or so on, people associate her with their ethnic preconceptions. So, when the locals saw her with the scarf wrapped tightly around her head, they projected their image of a Middle Eastern woman upon her. Disturbingly.
Women looked at her with a condescending mixture of pity and disdain. They looked at me as if I were a wife-abusing terrorist. Men looked at us like we were both worthy of being shot by Chris f***ing Kyle.
All because a "white" woman was chilly and covered her head.
America, you are SO f***ing f***ed. Surprised nobody shot us based on their idiotic, bigoted, stupid-assed ideas.
Je suis Chapel Hill.
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If they tell you to "Go Back to China!," simply respond by telling them to
KingCharlemagne
Feb 2015
#40
I've got the most beautiful scarves and shawls and I don't dare cover my head with them.
Rozlee
Feb 2015
#21
We have a lovely black and white checked long scarf given to us by a Palestinian friend
dixiegrrrrl
Feb 2015
#22
I think often many Americans don't realize just how diverse America is. There are some states I
RKP5637
Feb 2015
#55
I wore one of my bedu dresses to the store today, scarf around my neck and noticed 1 person staring
uppityperson
Feb 2015
#12
Yeah, and they are also free to be too fucking stupid to figure out whether they should be
Hissyspit
Feb 2015
#17
the right to heap disdain on religious people, Muslims in particular...
carolinayellowdog
Feb 2015
#38
The amount of right wing propaganda on TV and in the pulpit is freaking these people out.
greatlaurel
Feb 2015
#23
Well, that is embarrassing. Thanks for the catch. My only excuse is,I was really tired when I posted
greatlaurel
Feb 2015
#78
That is pretty chilling. This is very close, but does not include all the statements.
greatlaurel
Feb 2015
#100
I remember the babushkas. Grew up in central east Ohio, Not fat from Pittsburgh.
alphafemale
Feb 2015
#35
I think it shows an apathetic sort of privilege that you can manage shock at this. Dirty looks. My.
Bluenorthwest
Feb 2015
#29
I was thinking the same thing. The author has to be a white straight guy
riderinthestorm
Feb 2015
#39
My basis for my statement is that obviously the OP has never gotten a suspicious look
riderinthestorm
Feb 2015
#70
Obviously you haven't been the recipient of very many"dirty looks" either
riderinthestorm
Feb 2015
#88
Didnt the poster make it clear he or she could see the contempt and distrust in the eyes
randys1
Feb 2015
#53