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Proud Liberal Dem

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20. As somebody who works in the Child Welfare system
Sat Mar 7, 2015, 05:35 PM
Mar 2015

Last edited Sat Mar 7, 2015, 08:14 PM - Edit history (2)

I find the concept of "re-homing" and the potential consequences apalling. I think that we need to strengthen laws (perhaps even push for a federal law) that prohibits this kind of unregulated practice. I get that some children whom come out of the foster care system are not easy to deal with and some might be so damaged that it may be incredibly difficult for them to lead safe and stable lives, however there needs to be some more support for families dealing with troubled adoptive children and, in the event a family comes to the point of feeling like they can no longer care for an adoptive child, there needs to be some kind of way for the system to safely step back in a re-assume supervision and care of them. An unregulated and underground "system" of farming troubled adoptive children out to new homes leaves the door wide open for them to be abused/neglected/exploited like the terrible case in Arkansas has shown- which will hopefully shine some light on this problem (though this isn't the first time the news media has covered this).

Great post cyberswede Mar 2015 #1
Yes - please take the time to read the linked article on Wonkette. erronis Mar 2015 #9
Lovely article. Re-homing makes me kinda sick. Rejecting a rejected child all over again? Shrike47 Mar 2015 #2
"Re-homing" sounds so much better than "dumping" n/t Gormy Cuss Mar 2015 #4
That's exactly what I thought wellstone dem Mar 2015 #5
I struggle to understand how someone who went through the formal adoption process Gormy Cuss Mar 2015 #6
Thank you. westerebus Mar 2015 #3
wellstone dem Diclotican Mar 2015 #7
Actually I adopted my daughter wellstone dem Mar 2015 #8
wellstone dem Diclotican Mar 2015 #12
Just to clarify wellstone dem Mar 2015 #14
wellstone dem Diclotican Mar 2015 #15
No problem at all wellstone dem Mar 2015 #16
wellstone dem Diclotican Mar 2015 #18
Very similar story here PumpkinAle Mar 2015 #10
Thanks for sharing wellstone dem Mar 2015 #17
"Rehoming is just another word for abandoning." LWolf Mar 2015 #11
More from Wonkette wellstone dem Mar 2015 #13
wonderful story Liberal_in_LA Mar 2015 #19
As somebody who works in the Child Welfare system Proud Liberal Dem Mar 2015 #20
Amen! wellstone dem Mar 2015 #21
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