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In reply to the discussion: Somewhere in the middle of Afghanistan, there are the ruins of two demolished Buddha statues... [View all]Warpy
(114,588 posts)and trying to exclude them completely is unrealistic.
Afghanistan has been a pit for women for millennia. That doesn't excuse it, but it is ingrained into the culture the way it has been in Saudi Arabia. For most women, the evil is somewhat ameliorated by family, something explained by an Afghan coworker during the first days of the war. The other women are the ones we hear about frequently.
What we and our Afghan sisters have to hope for is that the Taliban have been mellowed by age and experience, that they also have daughters and will not be as harsh as they were in the 90s. Another thing is that people remember how harsh they were and won't be as willing to turn everything over to them. They will be checked by more secular Afghans.
No, I don't want to abandon my Afghan sisters. However, the days of the US being able to do any good over there via the military are long over. The longer we stay, the worse it will get.