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In reply to the discussion: Why the hell is Alan Grayson going after his wife for bigamy? [View all]MADem
(135,425 posts)You do know how essential biology works, don't you? Does someone need to explain to you how babies are made? The whole "two to tango" routine? And you still have the moxie to say But She is the one who involved the children when she had them in what only she knew was a Bigamous marriage? Here's what you are missing--they BOTH had those children. You think he should tell them they're mistakes, is that it?
You don't KNOW that she knew her marriage was bigamous, and it's news to me that sperm will stop what they're doing if they suspect a marriage license might be sketchy.
"At any moment her fraud could be discovered?" She was with him for TWENTY NINE years, she has been married to him for 25 of those years. That's a LOT of "any moments." This isn't a quickie relationship--most marriages don't last that long. She's been the principal caregiver of their FIVE children for nineteen of those years.
And what's wrong with him? Big shot investor, multi-millionaire, owner of a big McLean law firm--and he didn't run a background check on his young, divorced, Filipina bride to be? And no pre-nup? What is he, stupid? Or maybe he recognized this woman as his WIFE--up until he decided he didn't want to, anymore.
Apparently, he hasn't had any problem with her, nor she with him, for most of those 29 years they were together. Plainly, something happened in the relationship to destroy the family dynamic, but it's not like he was hating on her, or she on him, while he was making all those babies with her--at some point in time, they were happy enough to reproduce....FIVE TIMES.
I've lost a lot of respect for you with those comments of yours, I have to say. I'm rather surprised at your readiness to cast blame on the person in the relationship with less education, less power, and no money. This isn't about politics, this is about essential decency. The guy refused to fix the septic shit running all over the front lawn, and the house was full of mold-- with his KIDS living there. There's something wrong with someone who would allow their children to live in those conditions when he had the means to correct it, just to play "divorce games."