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Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
79. It's literally nuts.
Sat Apr 11, 2015, 12:44 PM
Apr 2015

Yes, the mother testified for the perp, but that's because he is her son. You can get a three year-old to say anything.

The theory that no real harm was done to the girl is hardly NEUTRAL or objective. Her flesh was torn up. Of course the child was both traumatized and injured, and the fact that it was her brother who did it is hardly going lessen the psychological harm.

This girl will be faced with her rapist again before she is 10. She won't even have hit puberty. This appears to be a conspiracy of delusion among the family, but the judge's job is to be an objective person rather than a co-conspirator in lunatic wishful thinking.

This was a violent attack. The girl was probably convulsing in agony. She would have been bleeding when he withdrew (and at that point, the child may have been struggling to breathe). Instead of seeking help, he clamps his hand over the girl's mouth to muffle her cries and forces her to participate as he masturbates to release. Following that, he pulls up her pants and frees her, but it is not until she is wailing about the pain she is in that her mother realizes she's bleeding from the ass. This is not caring.

One strongly suspects that this isn't the first time he had sexually molested the girl. The idea that he was just sitting in the garage playing video games, suddenly became aroused by seeing his sister toddle in, and thought "gee, why not?", got up, closed the door and locked it, and then grabbed his sister and sodomized her is crazy.

Child molesters aren't, strictly speaking, necessarily pedophiles:
http://www.crisisconnectioninc.org/sexualassault/pedophilia_and_molestation.htm

But they do get off on molesting children. Quite a few child molesters are capable of otherwise normal adult sexual relationships. So it may be true that the perp is not a pedophile - but he does get off on children. Nor does that change the probability of re-offense for the better:

Pedophiles primarily engage in fondling and oral-genital sex; they "court" and "groom" their victims as if engaged in a consensual relationship with an adult. Child molesters will fondle and engage in oral-genital sex, but also frequently sexually penetrate their victims, force children to watch while the molester abuses their mother or others and partake of pornography with children in the immediate vicinity.

Pedophiles are master rationalizers, while child molesters are master liars and manipulators.

Pedophiles may believe that they have not harmed the child (ego-syntonic) and may convince themselves that they truly "love" the child with no acceptance that they have used their power and influence to overpower their victim. Child molesters do not engage in a "relationship" with their victim, their interest is strictly overpowering the victim by means of sexual degradation and control.

Pedophilic behavior/fantasy rarely varies. If the Pedophile prefers 8 year-old boys, he will be "grooming" 6 or 7 year-olds to replace his current 8-year-old victims when they "age-out" of his preference parameters. Child molesters may continue victimizing the same child or children for years; convenience and accessibility are paramount to the molester.

Both Pedophiles and child molesters are primarily heterosexual males. Active pedophilic behavior generally starts slowing down around age 35; the child molester generally continues his victimization until he is no longer physically able due to age, illness, injury, or incarceration.


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Times like this, Kelvin Mace Apr 2015 #1
in my opinion, the judge should be removed from the bench trueblue2007 Apr 2015 #2
Well, see the rapist showed true remorse. justiceischeap Apr 2015 #3
13,000 signatures on recall petition so far. niyad Apr 2015 #43
How many needed? n/t. Ken Burch Apr 2015 #48
Both the pedo and this judge should be hanged. PeteSelman Apr 2015 #4
Not tortured. Just removed. They'll never change. n/t freshwest Apr 2015 #64
"He inexplicably became sexually aroused..." Nothing inexplicable about it Tom Ripley Apr 2015 #5
and the pedophile/rapist who VIOLENTLY VIOLATED the child = jail for rest of his life. trueblue2007 Apr 2015 #9
"Inexplicably" sexually aroused? No violence? AZ Mike Apr 2015 #6
To all sane individuals, sexual penetration of a three year-old would be considered violence. Yo_Mama Apr 2015 #74
The judge's quotes make no sense to me. aikoaiko Apr 2015 #7
This judge should be exposed as a pedophile as well, only a pedophile would defend such actions AZ Progressive Apr 2015 #8
my thoughts too. he seems to have an Saphire Apr 2015 #34
JAIL THE JUDGE TOO for whacking 15 years off a MANDITORY sentence!!! trueblue2007 Apr 2015 #10
I know I always cover someone's mouth when I'm showing regard for their well-being arcane1 Apr 2015 #11
I'm going to go throw up now. n/t Avalux Apr 2015 #12
"There was no violence or callous disregard for (the victim’s) well-being." - what the actual fuck? cyberswede Apr 2015 #13
there has to be a petition out there in computer land about this ROTTEN JUDGE and this case trueblue2007 Apr 2015 #14
Here's the Petition PADemD Apr 2015 #15
thanks PAD for posting the petition for this sad case. trueblue2007 Apr 2015 #23
Thanks. I signed. They have almost 5,000 signatures already. yardwork Apr 2015 #25
over 25,000 now. niyad Apr 2015 #44
Thank you. 840high Apr 2015 #27
done Liberal_in_LA Apr 2015 #32
signed! nt steve2470 Apr 2015 #62
some crimes have no alternatives, but the death penalty NM_Birder Apr 2015 #35
Then there is no incentive for pedophiles to not murder their victim. n/t tabasco Apr 2015 #67
you and I will not see eye to eye. NM_Birder Apr 2015 #70
I merely stated a fact. tabasco Apr 2015 #71
you stated an opinion, and disguised it as fact NM_Birder Apr 2015 #73
Everything is "automatic death penalty" on comment boards on the Internet. Even liberal boards. Fred Sanders Apr 2015 #78
What??!! Delphinus Apr 2015 #16
Creepy? A-Schwarzenegger Apr 2015 #17
LA talk radio is all over this one. Calling for a recall election Liberal_in_LA Apr 2015 #18
He should be charged for failing his duties Omaha Steve Apr 2015 #22
Now I've heard it all. lpbk2713 Apr 2015 #19
The judge- Scumbag M Marc Kelly is CRIMINAL, not creepy Tsiyu Apr 2015 #20
also, post 15 has a petition. i signed. nt seabeyond Apr 2015 #21
I ADDED PETITION URL to my original post. please let your friends know about it trueblue2007 Apr 2015 #24
This judge needs to be removed. 840high Apr 2015 #26
Hillary did something very similar Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #28
I remember. 840high Apr 2015 #29
It's from the Daily Heil in the UK.... truebrit71 Apr 2015 #37
video speaks for itself Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #39
I'm no fan of Hillary, BUT . . . markpkessinger Apr 2015 #51
three points Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #54
Is there video? (not a snippet) Is there a respectable journalistic source? If true, there will be Hekate Apr 2015 #60
Applying the "it's not RAPE-rape!" defense to a piece of shit who raped a toddler? Scootaloo Apr 2015 #30
There is no defense for this piece of shit, and the judge is a piece of shit too. Initech Apr 2015 #50
Seems to me someone needs to investigate this judge's background. Kablooie Apr 2015 #31
Please continue to help this news go viral, chervilant Apr 2015 #33
Here's what the scumbag judge looks like: Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #36
Contact info. and link to Facebook page calling for his removal from the bench: Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #38
Look at this: This same asshole went easy on a CHP officer who raped a 13-year-old girl Arugula Latte Apr 2015 #40
K&R and signed. nt Quackers Apr 2015 #41
No words to accurately describe how I feel about this case. Initech Apr 2015 #42
I agree times 10 gazillion. Ken Burch Apr 2015 #47
an absolutely sickened k and r niyad Apr 2015 #45
Does Orange County have a recall mechanism for judges? Ken Burch Apr 2015 #46
"Inexplicably became sexually aroused" markpkessinger Apr 2015 #49
His sister. The girl was his sister. Yo_Mama Apr 2015 #76
Prosecutor to appeal judge’s lighter sentence for man who raped 3-year-old girl Jefferson23 Apr 2015 #52
Another judge 2naSalit Apr 2015 #53
I think I am going to be sick. sheshe2 Apr 2015 #55
Some days it doesn't pay to read the news mythology Apr 2015 #56
I can't even...begin iwillalwayswonderwhy Apr 2015 #57
Somebody oughta look into that judge's closet. nt truebluegreen Apr 2015 #58
Signed. What's "inexplicable" is that man who has no business being on the bench. Ever. Hekate Apr 2015 #59
Maybe we need to require a mental check for judges, rulings like these needs the judge to serve time Thinkingabout Apr 2015 #61
I am still far to angry to respond with anything that won't be a rant. Kalidurga Apr 2015 #63
The judge sounds like a pedophile. romanic Apr 2015 #65
2nd kick! Quackers Apr 2015 #66
"He inexplicably became sexually aroused..." Tierra_y_Libertad Apr 2015 #68
Disbarment Required sub.theory Apr 2015 #69
3rd kick! Quackers Apr 2015 #72
More information about this case. Yo_Mama Apr 2015 #75
Of course defendant didn't seek out or stalk the victim (as the judge pointed out), since the victim LisaL Apr 2015 #77
It's literally nuts. Yo_Mama Apr 2015 #79
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