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In reply to the discussion: Here's the thing - don't expect me to be enthused about someone who cozys up to a mass murderer. [View all]MADem
(135,425 posts)He probably left because they allowed him to quit before he was fired, and that was a fine excuse for him to use as a reason for leaving. The story does NOT ring true. He could have gotten the flu or a flat tire and kept that "integrity" of his. His "integrity" didn't get in the way of taking the job or the pay that put him at that reception in the first place. Anyone who "loudly announces" anything at a workplace reception is begging for a pink slip, or a "pack your things and quit before you're shitcanned" talk. He's certainly not angling for a good recommendation from his bosses, is he? It's not quite peeing in the punchbowl, but it's being disruptive to no real benefit. That leads me to believe he was about to get fired, if that isn't how he departed the company.
It's not that "America doesn't like to discuss that sort of thing" -- it's that most of America understands that time and place are important in the context of having these sorts of discussions. Workplace receptions and official functions are just NOT an effective time or place.
But in any event, he wasn't a secretary of state attending a function populated by secretaries of state, was he? He was a worker at a firm who apparently didn't have any loyalty to his company, had no respect for the people who hired him, and didn't have any expectation of getting a good reference, assuming his tale was true (and I don't think it was, as I said).
When I see a thread excoriating John Kerry, Jimmy Carter, Joe Biden, Nelson Mandela and Stephen Colbert for posing in a chummy way with "that war criminal," (and gee, they did that posing years ago--so many opportunities for people to post such a thread, and yet, no one did it? How ... ODD!!!! But AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN, I see this same old meme, this same old picture, of a female Secretary of State with another Secretary of State at an official function for .. SECRETARIES of STATE, and I'm supposed to put on my Poutrage Face? Unnnh, unnnh--not happening!) I will believe that this kind of criticism is something other than the usual "higher standard" and excessive criticism that is ROUTINELY heaped upon women in public life.
As I have noted, and am sad to say, in my experience some of the most offensive perpetrators of this kind of "shit on women/excuse men for the same behavior" thing are women. You'd think people who ostensibly wear the "liberal/progressive" label would walk the walk...