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In reply to the discussion: The Banality of Henry Kissinger [View all]calimary
(89,898 posts)This IS like high school sometimes! There ARE cliques and all that adolescent shit. Sometimes it's quite hilarious, all things considered. I was yammering on elsewhere here about the arrested development I witnessed, on parade at a shooting event to which I was invited a couple of years ago. Arrested development seems EVERYWHERE sometimes, doesn't it!
I've often wondered how I would behave if I found myself in a photo with people I did not like or really didn't want to be seen with. Well, it's a photo. A moment captured visually forever. I'd probably try to come up with a nice smile. I've certainly had to work with people I didn't like, didn't trust, didn't really want to be seen with. But hey, you're at a big convention or hospitality suite or Christmas party or something, and there are the inevitable photos. Whaddya do? You make nice. For appearances sake. Unless you really WANT some sort of confrontation or to make a stink of some sort. Sometimes there are situations in which it's just not doable. A woman I once worked for had, on prominent display in her home, a photo of herself meeting reagan at some reception. She had this huge smile on her face. I knew she personally reviled him, opposed everything he stood for, and thought he was a complete brainless and therefore seriously dangerous nincompoop. But MAN did she smile in that photo!