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In reply to the discussion: Message to the Left-Wing [View all]H2O Man
(78,940 posts)I just spoke with a Good Friend here -- using DU e-mail -- about my just getting home from a pre-trial hearing for the fellow who shot my cousin and his son. So I was indeed on the courthouse steps this morning. Alas, I was on my best behavior.
It is difficult for my family members to sit and listen to the things coming out of the defense attorney's mouth. My family deals with the raw emotions that come to the surface at every such hearing. I understand that, and wish that somehow, it could all just go away. But it can't.
I focus on the court process. Knowing that the unpleasant features are simply an unavoidable part of that process allows me to separate from the emotional parts. As much as I dislike this guy, and resent what he did, I do believe that everyone -- including those who are guilty as sin -- deserve a fair trial. Including legal representation.
Now, knowingly at risk of sounding like I am trying to wrench the long arm of coincidence out of its socket, I also try to take an emotionally-detached approach -- at times -- to social - political issues. I try to focus on the process: how things are done, including how "good" might best be accomplished.
Democracy and social justice are not states of being; rather, they are on-going processes, that always require both attention and effort. And that includes everyone having a say. Even those who I dislike, or consider to be the opposition.
Thank you for your kindness.