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In reply to the discussion: The hideous white hypocrisy behind the Baltimore “Hero Mom” hype: How clueless media applause excuse [View all]pnwmom
(110,254 posts)are affected by their race. I don't think it's your European upbringing. Not all Europeans are uninterested in the effects of racism.
http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jan/26/do-not-see-race-ignoring-racism-not-helping
People love to tell me that they often forget that Im black. They say this with a sort of a-ha! look on their faces, as if their dawning ability to see my blackness was a gift to us both.
When I point out that their eyesight had never left them, that my skin has never changed colors, and that they probably did not really forget that I am black, they inevitably get defensive. First, they try to argue that it was a compliment; the smart ones quickly realize that complimenting someone on not being black is actually pretty racist, so they switch gears.
I dont see race! is usually their next tactic, followed by I am colorblind, though they never give credit to Stephen Colbert. By colorblind they dont actually mean that they cant see green or red; rather, they are suggesting that they cant ever be racist, because they dont register skin color at all.
This ideology is very popular like a racial utopic version of the Golden Rule but its actually quite racist. Colorblindness doesnt acknowledge the very real ways in which racism has existed and continues to exist, both in individuals and systemically. By professing not to see race, youre just ignoring racism, not solving it.
SNIP