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CreekDog

(46,192 posts)
Thu May 14, 2015, 02:58 PM May 2015

The response to the Jennifer Kim/Violinist tweet is totally out of proportion and inappropriate [View all]

We aren't talking about a major public figure who did something dumb.

We aren't talking about a public or private citizen who said something that was racist, sexist, homophobic, advocated for the harm of any person or animal.

We are just talking about someone who, by all accounts, is otherwise a regular, if significantly accomplished person, who after being in a train derailment, said something dumb and insensitive.

(here is her blog, I don't see any deep seated evil here, do you:
https://violinistjennifer.wordpress.com/blog-2/page/2/)

Now I don't know about you, but I am betting that you have said something dumb that was actually a harmless statement.

But I'm also betting that you've never had countless news stories written about it and thousands and thousands of people saying horrible things about you for it.

And I'd also bet that other people that share your name were not likewise harassed for it too (as other musicians named Jennifer Kim have reported experiencing).

This is over the top, it is out of proportion and it's just wrong. And the only way to stop this excess is to push back hard against it.

Because while what she said was insensitive, but not actually offensive, if you participate in a wildly out of proportion punishment by shaming, then you also are wrong for that action.




also, one DUer posted this:

markpkessinger (6,100 posts)
189. An ex of mine -- also a classical violinist -- knows Jennifer Kim . . .

. . . and here is what he had to say on Facebook:

Jennifer used to be a member of the American Symphony Orchestra, until she moved down to DC. She is such a sweet, gentle person - and a wonderful violinist and colleague. The only things callous on her are the fingertips of her left hand! Our violins are not only our voice, they are irreplaceable works of art as well. If my 315 year baby was on that train, I'm sure I would have reacted similarly. Jennifer certainly doesn't need social media shaming for her reaction.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=6669890
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Totally agree! Cali_Democrat May 2015 #1
Anyone in the pile-on has no idea about Ms. Kim's position. Coventina May 2015 #2
What did she say? ann--- May 2015 #3
She sent out a tweet shortly after the accident sarcastically thanking AMTRACK for derailing the Coventina May 2015 #5
Guess it would ann--- May 2015 #7
It was all over DU yesterday, so the OP must have assumed "everyone" knew about it. Coventina May 2015 #9
Kick and Rec! zappaman May 2015 #4
I agree and had a fight with several folks on Twitter about that very thing. stevenleser May 2015 #6
In her position, I might have said/tweeted the same thing. haele May 2015 #8
So why do people keep bringing it up? TheManInTheMac May 2015 #10
Are you suggesting that if we stop talking about it on DU it will go away? Not hardly. stevenleser May 2015 #11
Then why are you kicking the thread? CreekDog May 2015 #13
I'm not the one complaining. I'm fine with the amount of attention she's getting. TheManInTheMac May 2015 #17
I agree - anyone who has been thru a severe disaster usually goes into some form of shock. blm May 2015 #12
according to her site catrose May 2015 #14
She had just been through a very traumatic experience, and her violin is her best friend. Avalux May 2015 #15
The dead people had been through a slightly more trying experience, don't you think? And those dying jtuck004 May 2015 #18
Who are you to judge her? Avalux May 2015 #22
It's called having your fucking priorities in order, and not being a selfish little ass. jtuck004 May 2015 #25
There are always going to be a handful of idiots who pretend to know how LanternWaste May 2015 #16
There's One In This Very Thread ProfessorGAC May 2015 #28
agree dembotoz May 2015 #19
This doesn't surprise me at all. leftyladyfrommo May 2015 #20
There is a word for this sort of thing KamaAina May 2015 #21
Talented. Asian. Female. libdem4life May 2015 #23
I hate to say it but... she is a woman nadinbrzezinski May 2015 #24
Sure, her wording could have been better, but the pile-on was way over the top. bullwinkle428 May 2015 #26
Absolutely agree. Armchair moralists who think they can walk in anyone's shoes. randome May 2015 #27
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