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haele

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8. In her position, I might have said/tweeted the same thing.
Thu May 14, 2015, 03:13 PM
May 2015

Just to decompress after going through a terrifying experience. It wasn't mean, it wasn't mocking to other victims, it was directly related to what she went through and was a way of making a personal inventory of the situation for her.

Whenever I've been in an accident or serious situation, I'm not a weeper, I'm not a "Thank God" type of person - I'll tend to make a sardonic observation to lower the intensity of my personal terrors and pain - and then I go on with what needs to be done. I'm not mean. I believe in trying to make situations better, or at least not make them worse.
If however, if not having "the proper timing" when being sardonic or sarcastic is such a bad thing and such a personality weakness that outweighs everything else about me - my strengths, my talents, and any of the good I've done throughout my life, than I'm a evil person and should be hounded out of existence.
Like Ms. Kim. Just stone her already. Indulge in that 10 minute hate, because such righteous indignation over a trivial comment purifies the haters so much.

Haele

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Totally agree! Cali_Democrat May 2015 #1
Anyone in the pile-on has no idea about Ms. Kim's position. Coventina May 2015 #2
What did she say? ann--- May 2015 #3
She sent out a tweet shortly after the accident sarcastically thanking AMTRACK for derailing the Coventina May 2015 #5
Guess it would ann--- May 2015 #7
It was all over DU yesterday, so the OP must have assumed "everyone" knew about it. Coventina May 2015 #9
Kick and Rec! zappaman May 2015 #4
I agree and had a fight with several folks on Twitter about that very thing. stevenleser May 2015 #6
In her position, I might have said/tweeted the same thing. haele May 2015 #8
So why do people keep bringing it up? TheManInTheMac May 2015 #10
Are you suggesting that if we stop talking about it on DU it will go away? Not hardly. stevenleser May 2015 #11
Then why are you kicking the thread? CreekDog May 2015 #13
I'm not the one complaining. I'm fine with the amount of attention she's getting. TheManInTheMac May 2015 #17
I agree - anyone who has been thru a severe disaster usually goes into some form of shock. blm May 2015 #12
according to her site catrose May 2015 #14
She had just been through a very traumatic experience, and her violin is her best friend. Avalux May 2015 #15
The dead people had been through a slightly more trying experience, don't you think? And those dying jtuck004 May 2015 #18
Who are you to judge her? Avalux May 2015 #22
It's called having your fucking priorities in order, and not being a selfish little ass. jtuck004 May 2015 #25
There are always going to be a handful of idiots who pretend to know how LanternWaste May 2015 #16
There's One In This Very Thread ProfessorGAC May 2015 #28
agree dembotoz May 2015 #19
This doesn't surprise me at all. leftyladyfrommo May 2015 #20
There is a word for this sort of thing KamaAina May 2015 #21
Talented. Asian. Female. libdem4life May 2015 #23
I hate to say it but... she is a woman nadinbrzezinski May 2015 #24
Sure, her wording could have been better, but the pile-on was way over the top. bullwinkle428 May 2015 #26
Absolutely agree. Armchair moralists who think they can walk in anyone's shoes. randome May 2015 #27
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