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Hepburn

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34. The issue is a legal issue at this point, not a medical one
Fri May 15, 2015, 10:53 AM
May 2015

Having practiced family law for a very long time -- now retired -- I am very familiar with parenting agreements and other agreements which become court orders and/or judgments.

What in fact has taken place is that the agreement has basically been reduced to a stipulated judgment. BY AGREEING WITH THE OTHER PARENT, SHE GAVE THE COURT THE AUTHORITY TO MAKE THIS ORDER/JUDGMENT. After doing this, one cannot simply state that he/she changed his/her mind. It does not work this way.

Once you give up the authority to the higher power, usually you are done because there is nothing to appeal -- there is no court error on the issue since the parties agreed to a term of an order or judgment which the court approved and had the jurisdiction to order and enforce. By agreeing on this term, the parties in essence took away the jurisdiction of the court to determine the issue then as well as later.

The mother should not have agreed to the term IF she had doubts at all at the time the parenting agreement was formulated.

To me, it is not an issue about circumcision or no circumcision -- it is about someone having the right to make what he/she now feels is a bad decision and later having to live with it. Choices at times can be bad choices -- she simply is too late on this issue.

JMHO

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Mom in circumcision fight found, jailed [View all] Jesus Malverde May 2015 OP
Off the top of my head, I'd say this is just what DU needed! nt Bonobo May 2015 #1
The procedure will be performed at Olive Garden, Art_from_Ark May 2015 #2
thanks bonobo! Jesus Malverde May 2015 #3
Here's Dolfin for you Art_from_Ark May 2015 #4
7 already? My shoes just dried off from 6! nt Bonobo May 2015 #5
Mine, too Art_from_Ark May 2015 #6
This circumcision thread is rather boring. I think I need to get it started. Bonobo May 2015 #8
Thanks mang. Jesus Malverde May 2015 #9
I can never keep up with who owns the Hawks Art_from_Ark May 2015 #14
My foresight calls for immediate circumspection. kentauros May 2015 #29
I see what you did there. Jesus Malverde May 2015 #45
I found this on google images just to put the icing on the cake snooper2 May 2015 #43
I've always been under the impression that family courts are supposed to PotatoChip May 2015 #7
Not an infant anymore, either. TDale313 May 2015 #10
I missed that in my reading. PotatoChip May 2015 #13
Or all the fighting surrounding it. TDale313 May 2015 #15
I agree. (nt) PotatoChip May 2015 #17
That's the part I think sucks. Erich Bloodaxe BSN May 2015 #26
Worse yet, this isn't an infant, SheilaT May 2015 #12
I also thought both parents had to consent for circumcision to be done gollygee May 2015 #24
She agreed to it - then changed her mind RockaFowler May 2015 #31
How could the court make the decision that this is or was medically unnecessary? Hepburn May 2015 #36
Mea Culpa. PotatoChip May 2015 #40
Hi... Hepburn May 2015 #47
Cirumcised is better! Bonobo May 2015 #11
Wow-- just reading that makes me feel... Art_from_Ark May 2015 #16
Well summarized Jesus Malverde May 2015 #18
Worst circumcision thread ever! What is going on here! Bonobo May 2015 #20
Indeed they are. Jesus Malverde May 2015 #22
*Yawn*......ga' morning.....how come all the good threads are while I am asleep? dixiegrrrrl May 2015 #23
You didn't miss much it was a 3-3 tie Jesus Malverde May 2015 #28
I think you covered all the arguments. Thread over! n/t backscatter712 May 2015 #37
This thread leaves me in turmohel pinboy3niner May 2015 #19
Lol Jesus Malverde May 2015 #21
Thanks pinboy3niner May 2015 #27
... n2doc May 2015 #25
why the hell is it the court business ? drray23 May 2015 #30
Because she already agreed to it....... WillowTree May 2015 #32
The agreement that she signed made that choice entirely the fathers actually. Lancero May 2015 #41
How about they only do half? snooper2 May 2015 #44
Are they Jewish? I expect there's a mohel somewhere who would do this. Sheldon Cooper May 2015 #33
The issue is a legal issue at this point, not a medical one Hepburn May 2015 #34
What if she learned certain facts later to change her mind? mainer May 2015 #35
Too late Hepburn May 2015 #38
I read the complait which mother filed in Federal Court Hepburn May 2015 #39
Yep. She is SOL. nt COLGATE4 May 2015 #42
Glad this is such a hilarious joke to everyone. Nine May 2015 #46
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