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No one can get married in Michigan unless they get a license from the state. notadmblnd May 2012 #1
But your clergy still has the authority to say those famous words nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #5
Nadin I hear what you are saying but I think you would get a bigger argument on this than same jwirr May 2012 #25
Two separate issues nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #34
I know it works that way in many countries and I would work that way here also IF we could ever jwirr May 2012 #46
Agreed it won't be easy. nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #47
agreed... in Germany you marry in front of the state fascisthunter May 2012 #2
uh, guess what? In every state in this country cali May 2012 #6
+1... SidDithers May 2012 #66
it is very simple, and the op is rather silly and dogmatic cali May 2012 #81
Yeah, I know... but not what I meant to say: fascisthunter May 2012 #89
I did not get married in a church some 50 years ago. It has always been legal to marry in front of a jwirr May 2012 #27
I should have been more specific: fascisthunter May 2012 #87
I know of nowhere in the US Dorian Gray May 2012 #54
If it were a separation of church and state Nuclear Unicorn May 2012 #3
Just curious how would the government/state saying you as a church/religious organization can jp11 May 2012 #13
It is largely semantics. annabanana May 2012 #60
Historically, marriage was under the sole jurisdiction The Velveteen Ocelot May 2012 #4
Never gonna happen derby378 May 2012 #7
And that can still happen nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #14
that's not even close to the next step cali May 2012 #8
Sounds right to me. jp11 May 2012 #9
Why? MadHound May 2012 #10
Your civil ceremony could be conducted under a wide open sky nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #12
Well, that's nice and all, MadHound May 2012 #15
Oh we are also a conservative country nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #17
Liberal or conservative, the vast majority of people in this country are indeed religious, MadHound May 2012 #20
I guess Mexicans, who is your closest neighbor to practice this nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #22
And priests, rabbis, imams, and left handed widgets still perform religious ceremonies in the US MadHound May 2012 #28
Go marry in a church, may pole whatever, nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #33
Which is why you are required to sign a marriage license MadHound May 2012 #35
We have the beginnings of it, but not quite there nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #36
"easy peachy" indeed. n/t zappaman May 2012 #37
... Union Scribe May 2012 #49
Why does it matter if you sign the document before or after the ceremony? MadHound May 2012 #38
Off by a few miles, even light years nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #39
Separation of church and state? MadHound May 2012 #42
First tradition, now personal attacks. nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #45
LOL! n/t zappaman May 2012 #48
You have insulted pecwae May 2012 #51
And he has been pure and non insulting, good bye nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #72
oh my word. Nadine, don't you see how insulting you've been to others in this thread? cali May 2012 #52
Classic!... SidDithers May 2012 #70
Can't wait for the H & M thread zappaman May 2012 #80
You've presented the facts and Union Scribe May 2012 #50
"I guess you really have no idea how this works. " zappaman May 2012 #29
you didn't give a reason cali May 2012 #18
+100 n/t zappaman May 2012 #19
'Well beyond what people understand here," -- except you, right? Codeine May 2012 #53
+100 n/t zappaman May 2012 #84
I wanted to get married the same way, but it was pouring that day. badtoworse May 2012 #56
No, the next step should be the Supreme Court upholds & extends *Loving v. Virginia*, and rules that apocalypsehow May 2012 #11
Why shouldn't people be able to get married in a church zappaman May 2012 #16
That is still entirely up to the individual church (or whatever) to decide. . . .n/t annabanana May 2012 #61
So you want some people (actually a lot) to get "married" twice?? madinmaryland May 2012 #21
It happens around the world, outside our borders, regularly nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #24
I don't understand the difference now. Johonny May 2012 #26
Dd not say scrap the religious part nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #30
You should re-read your OP then. zappaman May 2012 #32
(everybody still goes to City Hall too). . .n/t annabanana May 2012 #62
Meh, if religious people want to get married in their sufrommich May 2012 #23
Exactly, but the civil ceremony shoud be completely separate. nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #31
The Civil - thing - does not have to be a "ceremony".. annabanana May 2012 #63
It is a licence, not a cert... at least where I live nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #65
Wait, didn't Obama just come out for states' rights on this issue? nt Skip Intro May 2012 #40
Yes he did, something that seems to be missed in the celebration. Puzzledtraveller May 2012 #59
So peoples marriages wouldn't be legal if they went on annabanana May 2012 #64
Better yet, once you get a license DearAbby May 2012 #41
That is already the case MadHound May 2012 #43
lousy idea. you won't get the majority of people to support it. not even close. dionysus May 2012 #44
Please show us where the federal government was given the power to implement this. badtoworse May 2012 #55
You could and I will make the argument that this is part of the 13 and 14 nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #68
This is not a civil rights issue badtoworse May 2012 #73
Yes it is... nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #74
True, but who marries you doesn't make any difference. badtoworse May 2012 #75
It does, when the churches start playing the games they do nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #76
You should start working on a constitutional amendment... badtoworse May 2012 #77
Civil rights is a pressing issue if you happen to be a minority nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #78
This thread is full of fail. zappaman May 2012 #82
No, the next step HappyMe May 2012 #57
Mark my words, and why this has to be crystal clear nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #67
+1... SidDithers May 2012 #71
Currently, people can get married in courtrooms ecstatic May 2012 #58
Insofa as LGBT rights that is the next step nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #69
please explain clearly for all of us who you deem too stupid to understand cali May 2012 #79
"This also means a complete separation of this civil function from the religious function." Zorra May 2012 #83
I don't think that's necessary. Bake May 2012 #85
Once again, you can have your religious ceremony nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #86
I absolutely agree that this is the best solution to the whole problem. Bolo Boffin May 2012 #88
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