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In reply to the discussion: Cadaverous 16-year-olds - the chosen models of the fashion industry [View all]CrispyQ
(36,437 posts)when they feature real shots of stars without their makeup.
As women, we compare ourselves to these beauties every time we go to the grocery store. It's nice to see what they really look like. I remember thinking, "How does Goldie Hawn look so much younger than me when she is at least 12-15 years older than me?" Then I saw her on one of those covers & I came to my senses. I know they use makeup & air brushing, but even knowing this, we are conditioned to accept her air brushed looks at 'face value' so to speak - lol - & then you compare your own reality 50+ face.
I think these types of photos have a positive impact on men, too. They finally see what a makeover, lighting & air brushing can achieve.
Another side effect of sexualizing women is the impact it has on older women. Once you're no longer seen in a sexual way, you are invisible. I laughed so hard during an episode of "Six Feet Under" when the mother became friends with the Kathy Bates character. KB shop lifts one day while they are shopping & the mother is horrified. "What if you get caught?" she whispers to KB as they walk toward the exit. KB scoffs & replies, "Are you kidding? Women our age are invisible in our society."
I don't advocate putting this to the test, but there is an element of truth to what she says. I remember the year I first was called "Ma'am" by a young clerk. It was . . . a moment. I am becoming invisible.
But it can be empowering, too. ~smile.