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69. Don't you also gag when the articles say "VERY YOUNG TEENAGER"

Fri May 22, 2015, 11:25 PM

May 2015

This sort if thing starts at puberty and NEVER ENDS.. they may use will power/fear to slow it down or even stop for a while, but the impulse is always with them..

It's always really about the age differential.. a 14,15,16 yr old "boy" going after a 5, 6, 7 yr old girl is sexual assault.. ad if it's with a relative it's always incest..regardless of the age..

It may or may not be assault if the boy is 16, 17 and the girl is 13 or 14, because these days parents permit very young girls to date, and when they start dating they usually want to date "older boys"....and dating usually leads to sex..

Back in the "olden days" most girls did not have permission to date until they were 16, and since most of the boys they had contact with were 18 or under, it was a fairer situation for everyone...but somewhere along the line, dating changed

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It's not "fondling" - it's sexual assault. [View all] Solly Mack May 2015 OP

Which is rape. He raped his sisters while they slept at night. Rex May 2015 #1

As a victim of child sexual assault, I am beyond disgusted by what I've read Solly Mack May 2015 #3

Me too, I am sick to my stomach over it. Those poor girls and what they have endured. Rex May 2015 #9

But Rex, leftieNanner May 2015 #38

I share your anger. Solly Mack May 2015 #58

Thank you! historylovr May 2015 #2

You're welcome. Solly Mack May 2015 #5

Thank you, Solly! Exactly. Despicable word games. Mnemosyne May 2015 #4

Thanks, Mnemosyne! Solly Mack May 2015 #6

I lost two families over it. I dared to speak out against my step-father and biological father, when Mnemosyne May 2015 #110

There was an active campaign to label me a liar. Solly Mack May 2015 #111

I lived through their liar campaign also. I knew they were not good people, but was stunned at how Mnemosyne May 2015 #112

It is the language of invalidation. Lars39 May 2015 #7

Exactly. Solly Mack May 2015 #8

I would figure it's a given with that family-cult. Lars39 May 2015 #12

No surprise. Solly Mack May 2015 #16

Ugh. Lars39 May 2015 #17

Any bets he was a member of their 'let us prey' movement n/t malaise May 2015 #59

Could be. I think there's more we don't know and probably never will. Solly Mack May 2015 #62

Something that bothers me about this cop... CoffeeCat May 2015 #105

I also believe he knew the cop for what he was and that's why he went to him. Solly Mack May 2015 #106

that's what I think too. BlancheSplanchnik May 2015 #109

Solly, my experience has also been that Skidmore May 2015 #43

I've seen it as well. Solly Mack May 2015 #45

We will never know the extent of what happened in the dark. RadiationTherapy May 2015 #10

I fear there is more to the story. Solly Mack May 2015 #15

gop is overflowing with rapists, molesters and incestors. That's why they promote and protect Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #11

They're everywhere, unfortunately Solly Mack May 2015 #18

In March 2002, Duggar had 5 younger sisters... SidDithers May 2015 #13

I agree. He does. Solly Mack May 2015 #14

Let's not forget that this "fucker" was a child too. sybylla May 2015 #47

+1,000,000! nt MADem May 2015 #53

Why do the Duggers still have their other kids? cheyanne May 2015 #19

I agree. Minor children are still in the home. Josh Duggar still has contact with them. Solly Mack May 2015 #20

Yes! sybylla May 2015 #48

There should not be minor children TNNurse May 2015 #101

They need a visit from children's services to investigate the safety of the children. bravenak May 2015 #21

They really should...in both homes. Solly Mack May 2015 #22

The church too. bravenak May 2015 #26

The entire dynamic of church/home/associations Solly Mack May 2015 #30

Oh, yeah, I noticed that this morning. bravenak May 2015 #34

It's an oppressive and closed society, where control is handed over Solly Mack May 2015 #44

Absoslutely! nt City Lights May 2015 #25

Same with the word "molestation." Sounds so much less yucky than "forced sexual contact of a minor" Heddi May 2015 #23

Me too. bravenak May 2015 #27

Thank you. Exactly. Solly Mack May 2015 #28

I get why you used it, but when the news or some story says "s/he was sexually abused for years" Heddi May 2015 #29

I agree, and Thank you! Solly Mack May 2015 #35

I read through the heavily redacted report -- can the church be on the hook for Mandatory Reporting? Heddi May 2015 #36

Yes. Solly Mack May 2015 #39

Unfortunately SickOfTheOnePct May 2015 #63

Now that sucks. Solly Mack May 2015 #65

You are correct. Thanks for this post! nt City Lights May 2015 #24

You're welcome. Solly Mack May 2015 #32

+1000 brer cat May 2015 #31

He really should...along with his enabling parents. Solly Mack May 2015 #33

Between that and hearing "mistake," I've about had it. ScreamingMeemie May 2015 #37

I know! "Mistake", my ass. Solly Mack May 2015 #40

too bad the statute of limitations has passed... he belongs in the slammer secondwind May 2015 #41

He does belong in jail. Solly Mack May 2015 #42

Recommended. H2O Man May 2015 #46

Just a survivor is all. Solly Mack May 2015 #51

Pray it away tiptonic May 2015 #49

That is the route they took. Solly Mack May 2015 #50

He and those who aided and abetted him belong in jail (nt) LostOne4Ever May 2015 #52

I agree. Solly Mack May 2015 #64

I can't help but wonder how Josh Duggar developed Ilsa May 2015 #54

It's not always true that a predator was once a victim. Solly Mack May 2015 #56

Thank you for this Solly Mack... Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #66

You're welcome. Solly Mack May 2015 #67

I suspect church elders encourage this type of behavior with boys, it's a way of life for them Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #68

The marriage of religion and politics happened a long time ago when Solly Mack May 2015 #70

Very true. Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #71

I was glad when that man died. Solly Mack May 2015 #73

The vile damage he created just continues use to grow. Dont call me Shirley May 2015 #74

Yep. It sure does. Solly Mack May 2015 #75

The Duggars subjected their small children back LibDemAlways May 2015 #97

That is abusive. Children explore. They need to explore. Solly Mack May 2015 #99

The Duggars followed the recommendations LibDemAlways May 2015 #100

More specifically, it's incest. The parents are responsible, IMO. libdem4life May 2015 #55

According to news stories rumors circulated for years...so.... Solly Mack May 2015 #57

I just literally sent them a message on their website expressing my outrage. At least Oprah libdem4life May 2015 #60

I fired off an email ysterday. Solly Mack May 2015 #61

Don't you also gag when the articles say "VERY YOUNG TEENAGER" SoCalDem May 2015 #69

Neither his age nor his own possible victimization excuses his actions. Solly Mack May 2015 #72

Well said. Jamastiene May 2015 #76

To some, women are just receptacles, so sexual assault Solly Mack May 2015 #94

Kick, kick, kick! Heidi May 2015 #77

It's rape Kalidurga May 2015 #78

I agree davidpdx May 2015 #79

Primarily news articles from around the web. Solly Mack May 2015 #81

Yes. And I do not feel sorry for the bastard. we can do it May 2015 #80

I don't either. Solly Mack May 2015 #82

"Nineteen kids and Counting" -- takes on a whole new meaning Hepburn May 2015 #83

I really do think the victim number is higher than 5. Solly Mack May 2015 #89

Considering his family helped him hide his "hobby" Hepburn May 2015 #95

If the supposedly clueless GOP does not know what rape is yet, incest must be a real mental stretch. libdem4life May 2015 #84

Oh, they seem to think it's OK if you say you're sorry. Solly Mack May 2015 #90

Yes, that's the childish, non-responsible view of many. But pretty sure there are going to be some libdem4life May 2015 #96

I really do hope protective services step in and help - actually help. Solly Mack May 2015 #98

As a former educator of young children, once they are in the school system, they will get help. libdem4life May 2015 #102

... Major Nikon May 2015 #85

Precisely. Solly Mack May 2015 #91

Just proves Conservativism is another cult... Spitfire of ATJ May 2015 #86

He's still being shielded and protected with people tryng to blame Solly Mack May 2015 #92

I second that!!!!! heaven05 May 2015 #87

OMG...........the reports on Josh MOLESTING young girls goes back years and years!!!! Hepburn May 2015 #88

Yep. Went on for another 9 months or so Solly Mack May 2015 #93

Message auto-removed Name removed May 2015 #103

Yes, the word is used under the heading of sexual assault. Solly Mack May 2015 #104

I know of two people who were arrested and found guilty murielm99 May 2015 #107

K and fucking R. times a trillion BlancheSplanchnik May 2015 #108