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In reply to the discussion: Things we should know about child molesters. (They are everywhere.) [View all]Dont call me Shirley
(10,998 posts)50. Not all predators are victims. Many victims do not become predators.
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Solly Mack
56. It's not always true that a predator was once a victim.
Yes, the odds are in favor of it, but it's still not always true. So it could be that he wasn't abused himself. Or it could even be he was physically abused, as that can lead to his being a juvenile sex offender as well.
It could be the environment he grew up in....it could be a combination of physical & sexual abuse and his environment.
I don't know.
http://www.csom.org/pubs/mythsfacts.html
Myth:
"Children who are sexually assaulted will sexually assault others when they grow up."
Fact:
Most sex offenders were not sexually assaulted as children and most children who are sexually assaulted do not sexually assault others.
Early childhood sexual victimization does not automatically lead to sexually aggressive behavior. While sex offenders have higher rates of sexual abuse in their histories than expected in the general population, the majority were not abused. Among adult sex offenders, approximately 30% have been sexually abused. Some types of offenders, such as those who sexually offend against young boys, have still higher rates of child sexual abuse in their histories (Becker and Murphy, 1998).
While past sexual victimization can increase the likelihood of sexually aggressive behavior, most children who were sexually victimized never perpetrate against others.
Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."
Fact:
Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.
Recent studies show that rates of physical and sexual abuse vary widely for adolescent sex offenders; 20 to 50% of these youth experienced physical abuse and approximately 40 to 80% experienced sexual abuse (Hunter and Becker, 1998). While many adolescents who commit sexual offenses have histories of being abused, the majority of these youth do not become adult sex offenders (Becker and Murphy, 1998). Research suggests that the age of onset and number of incidents of abuse, the period of time elapsing between the abuse and its first report, perceptions of how the family responded to the disclosure of abuse, and exposure to domestic violence all are relevant to why some sexually abused youths go on to sexually perpetrate while others do not (Hunter and Figueredo, in press).
Solly Mack
56. It's not always true that a predator was once a victim.
Yes, the odds are in favor of it, but it's still not always true. So it could be that he wasn't abused himself. Or it could even be he was physically abused, as that can lead to his being a juvenile sex offender as well.
It could be the environment he grew up in....it could be a combination of physical & sexual abuse and his environment.
I don't know.
http://www.csom.org/pubs/mythsfacts.html
Myth:
"Children who are sexually assaulted will sexually assault others when they grow up."
Fact:
Most sex offenders were not sexually assaulted as children and most children who are sexually assaulted do not sexually assault others.
Early childhood sexual victimization does not automatically lead to sexually aggressive behavior. While sex offenders have higher rates of sexual abuse in their histories than expected in the general population, the majority were not abused. Among adult sex offenders, approximately 30% have been sexually abused. Some types of offenders, such as those who sexually offend against young boys, have still higher rates of child sexual abuse in their histories (Becker and Murphy, 1998).
While past sexual victimization can increase the likelihood of sexually aggressive behavior, most children who were sexually victimized never perpetrate against others.
Myth:
"Juvenile sex offenders typically are victims of child sexual abuse and grow up to be adult sex offenders."
Fact:
Multiple factors, not just sexual victimization as a child, are associated with the development of sexually offending behavior in youth.
Recent studies show that rates of physical and sexual abuse vary widely for adolescent sex offenders; 20 to 50% of these youth experienced physical abuse and approximately 40 to 80% experienced sexual abuse (Hunter and Becker, 1998). While many adolescents who commit sexual offenses have histories of being abused, the majority of these youth do not become adult sex offenders (Becker and Murphy, 1998). Research suggests that the age of onset and number of incidents of abuse, the period of time elapsing between the abuse and its first report, perceptions of how the family responded to the disclosure of abuse, and exposure to domestic violence all are relevant to why some sexually abused youths go on to sexually perpetrate while others do not (Hunter and Figueredo, in press).
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Not all predators are victims. Many victims do not become predators.
Dont call me Shirley
May 2015
#50
If victims of sexual abuse are going to be labelled as potential aggressors they will stop
Dont call me Shirley
May 2015
#73
Wow. I'm thinking it's time for someone to hire a lawyer. Slapping her on the head is assault.
pnwmom
May 2015
#10
"I think the pats and rubbing are to get the girls used to his touch." - that's called "grooming".
FSogol
May 2015
#24
People always try to make it about "the Other", but they are in our own communities too....
Hekate
May 2015
#8
1 of out 4 girls has been molested as a child. This is not fear-mongering, this is reality.
pnwmom
May 2015
#12
And my point is that rape statistics and child molestation statistics are two different things.
pnwmom
May 2015
#81
I'm not trying to minimize anything just looking for the raw data from CDC or FBI
snooper2
May 2015
#46
The number includes girls up to the age of 18 so it would obviously be lower at the age of 11.
pnwmom
May 2015
#47
Talk openly to the children. Assuming it's not a primary parent who is molesting them
underahedgerow
May 2015
#28
Oh, I know. I just wanted to see where AngryDem001 drew the line between education and
Brickbat
May 2015
#32
Respect children's bodily autonomy by not forcing them to hug or kiss people.
KitSileya
May 2015
#35
Consciously conflating concern and awareness with "scared" kind of invalidates your premise
LanternWaste
May 2015
#38
It's not the boogeyman behind a tree, it's the one preparing dinner, or watching TV on the sofa
Scootaloo
May 2015
#77
Yes, the one I know of is a well-respected business owner. No one would ever guess.
pnwmom
May 2015
#17
"focus 90 percent of our efforts toward protecting children from the abusers who are not strangers"
lumberjack_jeff
May 2015
#27
By talking about it outside the home, in churches, in schools and anywhere we can. If WE
underahedgerow
May 2015
#29
Anecdote; Nearly all child molesters were also victims of molestation. That is not to say however,
underahedgerow
May 2015
#31
He does seem creepy, and so does his wife. But we have might have more to worry about
pnwmom
May 2015
#63