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Igel

(37,588 posts)
19. Defending them against what?
Sat May 23, 2015, 10:00 AM
May 2015

Something that happened over a decade ago?

From the failure of society to tell everybody that they were molested? (Hey, I know if I were molested I'd be telling everybody as many embarrassing, humiliating details as possible. And really appreciate it if others went around getting outraged or horny as they related the details I left out.)

I wonder if they'd want their brother prosecuted at this point. Some people value repentance and forgiveness as a Xian virtue. (Surely nobody that's really a Xian. I mean, Jesus went around helping the poor. But forgiveness played no part in anything he said or did, and at no point did he think anybody could or should change. That's so ... uh ... Squirrel!)

What this guy did was wrong. Sentencing a 14-year-old to jail as a felon is probably a bit harsh. (But here we're in the twilight zone: for some things, a 12 or 13-year-old is capable of making adult decisions, but 17-year-olds need to be protected from zero-tolerance regs.)

The problem is nobody liked the Duggars or their defenders/backers/supporters/fellow-travellers to begin with. The girls are tools to be exploited for political points. The guy--now in his mid-late 20s--is also a tool to be exploited for political points.

Otherwise the focus would be on the victims. And the first thing that the magazine that broke the story would have done, if not after readership, money, and prestige, is ask the girls if they wanted their privacy violated. (And then probably said, "Ah, false consciousness, we know what they want better than those poor, weak, pathetic, duped creatures ever could.&quot

I put all of this under the category of politically expedient gossip or using others without their permission to further personal goals. Neither strikes me as particularly virtuous.

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I am sorry, you are in violation of their religious rights which train girls they are only thereq hollysmom May 2015 #1
And they only want to expose the kids to other families which believes as they do. Not good. Thinkingabout May 2015 #3
Agreed! LovingA2andMI May 2015 #38
I too have a problem with Josh was put above other children in the family. It scares me it seems Thinkingabout May 2015 #2
But he wasa boy and the only one valued. hollysmom May 2015 #5
Thank You! LovingA2andMI May 2015 #8
A couple of other points... LovingA2andMI May 2015 #4
NO ONE cherokeeprogressive May 2015 #6
A few things to keep in mind: LeftyMom May 2015 #7
Yes, Mackenzie... LovingA2andMI May 2015 #9
Unbelievably, somebody on DU is actually defending the monster who assulted them. 6000eliot May 2015 #10
Yes!! LovingA2andMI May 2015 #12
If only more people followed this passage. This country would be a better place. 6000eliot May 2015 #15
If we're thinking of the same poster, I'm not surprised. She's no fan of gay people either. LeftyMom May 2015 #14
Nobody. Even their own parents. n/t Triana May 2015 #11
This needed to be said. The victims seem to be an afterthought in discussion and media coverage. pa28 May 2015 #13
Some DUers have appeared to be almost gleeful about what happened to the girls, pnwmom May 2015 #16
ugly and none too honest. I have seen nary a comment that indicates cali May 2015 #17
In Fact Josh.... LovingA2andMI May 2015 #39
I haven't seen that at all. polly7 May 2015 #18
I can attest to this justiceischeap May 2015 #21
((justiceischeap)) Solly Mack May 2015 #23
I'm so sorry, justiceischeap. polly7 May 2015 #25
I really wish you would fashion this comment into its own OP. Your eloquence and forthrightness KingCharlemagne May 2015 #36
Thank you. justiceischeap May 2015 #37
It's Josh who, as a grown man, has been a professional anti gay crusader and self appointed judge Bluenorthwest May 2015 #24
Defending them against what? Igel May 2015 #19
The guy, Josh, is an aggressive anti gay activist. For a living. Also a big anti choice activist. Bluenorthwest May 2015 #26
+ one million B2G May 2015 #31
If this were being revealed about any Sweet Freedom May 2015 #20
Exactly!!! LovingA2andMI May 2015 #22
As a former CPS investigator I agree with you. In_The_Wind May 2015 #29
That actually depends on the area of the country and if they are Jamastiene May 2015 #33
Sounds like the Duggars are mostly unemployed. Anyone sense a Book Deal in the offing? libdem4life May 2015 #27
They claimed that LGBT were a threat to children Boomer May 2015 #28
He grew up in a cult. lostnfound May 2015 #30
..... diabeticman May 2015 #32
Thank you!! LovingA2andMI May 2015 #40
I don't see how anyone can claim it is piling on when at least 5 girls Jamastiene May 2015 #34
About these victims... CoffeeCat May 2015 #35
Here's another thought on the Selfie... LovingA2andMI May 2015 #41
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