Things we should know about child molesters. (They are everywhere.)

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66. I think that was the OP's point.

There isn't a boogeyman out there. People who molest children are usually people we know -- family, coaches, pastors, people we look up to. They can be anywhere because they target children, and children are everywhere. Acknowledging that and teaching children about that IS educating them, not scaring them.

ETA: I do understand what you're trying to say, though, I think. We can teach children about the risks, love them, support them and give them the tools they need to understand what molestation is (teach bodily autonomy and consent), and then either send them out into the world or keep them inside and under careful watch. I get that, if that's what you're saying. But I believe it's possible to teach them about risks and build up their confidence so they know what correct and healthy adult behavior looks like without it being "fear-mongering."