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Stinky The Clown

(68,941 posts)
Thu May 10, 2012, 08:51 PM May 2012

When I was a young man, I participated in some bullying. I remember it as clear as day. [View all]

It was after I got out of the Navy and joined the Reserves. There was a young man (who had still not gone to active duty) who was an E3. I was a badass E5 with a hashmark. It was a gang of us who had all recently come back from the active fleet. There was no physical bullying. Instead, it was mean, cruel, relentless name calling and teasing.

One night, at a weekly drill, the target of our anti social behavior cried as we were being called to attention.

We all saw that. After the drill, out in the parking, some of my fellow perps got together and we decided we would never do that again. Some continued it.

I still regret having done it in the first place, and I still regret not taking up for the kid we bullied when the bullying continued without us.

That was someplace around 1970. I STILL remember everyone's name. I remember the guy we teased. I can still see his face that night. I felt like shit then and, even all these years later, I can still fell like shit thinking about it. And think about it I do. Quite frequently and for odd reasons.

When I heard about Willard participating in a similar event, I was caused to think about it again.

I will say unequivocally Willard is a fucking liar if he says he doesn't remember that.

But what if he does, in fact, not remember? That says even more about his sociopathy. I can't imagine doing what we did and being able to blow it off, down my personal memory hole.

Fuck you, Willard, you entitled perfumed prince. Fuck you.



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Are you going to find the victim and apologize? PADemD May 2012 #1
So right. One remembers one's own cruelties from childhood and youth enough May 2012 #2
My dad participated in a "clipping party" like Mitt's... JHB May 2012 #3
That's quite honestly WORSE than what Romney did. Spider Jerusalem May 2012 #4
Romney physically assaulted his victim. EOTE May 2012 #17
Did this E-5 physically assault nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #28
Me too BadGimp May 2012 #5
Thanks Stinky. But you are much better than Mittens. freshwest May 2012 #6
I'd Rec this right now but the Crackberry browser chokes on it slackmaster May 2012 #7
As a kid in 1955 I blurted out an angry racial slur at another kid. Speck Tater May 2012 #8
me too! samnsara May 2012 #9
Welcome to DU, samnsara. ScreamingMeemie May 2012 #11
on point! shugah May 2012 #10
Amazing rufus dog May 2012 #12
I was bullied. I became a bullly, to kids smaller & weaker than me. xfundy May 2012 #13
My late husband had guilt over his bullying of a kid in 5th grade duhneece May 2012 #14
I bullied once in 4th grade as part of a group. wildeyed May 2012 #15
The thing about human relationships EFerrari May 2012 #16
The "I do not remember" defense bothers me more than him being a bully four decades ago. ieoeja May 2012 #18
Me too. Warren Stupidity May 2012 #19
I did in junior high school tabasco May 2012 #20
The real difference between you and ... 99Forever May 2012 #21
Good on you for having a conscience and humanity. K&R. n/t Egalitarian Thug May 2012 #22
I believe him actually that he does not remember nadinbrzezinski May 2012 #23
I was bullied in junior high marlakay May 2012 #24
i was as well shanti May 2012 #27
He remembers. Of course he remembers. Lesleymo May 2012 #25
When I grew up my younger sister was teased and tormented lunatica May 2012 #26
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