Bully says: "I'm not a mean person"

[seabeyond]

5. there is so much in here, and it is in no way simple. with ALL the ugly of this situation

this is the results of stupid, for all of them.

i read an article on a man that was protecting his GF. he hit a man that was being aggressive, and verbally abusive to the GF. one hit, the man fell on the sidewalk, hit his head and died. there could be no reasonable expectation this is what is caused.

in the situation with this bullying, and i am a firm believe it was absolutely bully and mean, ugly and nasty, the death could not be a reasonable expectation.

we have so many conversations on du, in RL where we talk past each other. really do not listen to each other. we dont take the time to feel what the other is saying, try to see from another perspective.

it is sounding like this was the same situation. a do over. but we do not get do overs.

i dont think it is as easy as some of the posters suggest.