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84. What shoud he admit was wrong? He did not use the "c" word. He did not mention Hillary in his

Fri Jun 5, 2015, 12:35 PM

Jun 2015

post. What do you suggest he apologize for?

I think someone else should be man or woman enough to apologize.

Show me where NYC_SKP used the "c" word or mentioned Hillary in the post for which he was banned.

I can understand that a jury might have voted to remove the post, but to ban the poster on that post? No. The wrong was not on NYC_SKP:'s part. Sorry. But I have to defend not just NYC_SKP but the English language. It takes a big stretch to read both the "c" word and the Hilllary word and connect them in that post. The post was a joke that induced the readers to put the "c" word and the Hillary word together without NYC_SKP's having used either word. If anyone should be banned, its the readers of the post who inserted imagined words into the post and then condemned it. Ridiculous. It was a joke quite obviously. And it illustrates how we see things in posts that really are not exactly there.

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I'm going to toss this out there regarding NYC_SKIP. [View all] Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 OP

That's a really good point. lovemydog Jun 2015 #1

"One thread has already reached a thousand posts." Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #9

LOL lovemydog Jun 2015 #14

You should have been here when HRC was running against BHO . . . Petrushka Jun 2015 #10

I was a lurker back then.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #11

LOL Petrushka Jun 2015 #20

Vapors lovemydog Jun 2015 #27

Oh, my! Petrushka Jun 2015 #33

Bun B lovemydog Jun 2015 #37

Hugs! Petrushka Jun 2015 #40

Thank you winterwar Jun 2015 #49

Not only that BeyondGeography Jun 2015 #55

Ain't dat da troot! Petrushka Jun 2015 #116

Yeah, like women objecting to that word is somehow pearl clutching vapors... CTyankee Jun 2015 #78

Exactly! Petrushka Jun 2015 #115

Flash: "pearl clutching" is a misogynistic term! Divernan Jun 2015 #126

Misogynistic? "Ay-yi-yi," my grandma used to say, clutching her pearls. Petrushka Jun 2015 #134

Make mine a Blue Sapphire g&t w/ a twist of lime, please! Divernan Jun 2015 #144

Do not know about you but Hilary was horrible akbacchus_BC Jun 2015 #142

Don't let on that I told you, but . . . Petrushka Jun 2015 #143

All true, but NYC_SKP did not call Hillary anything. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #2

How many times have we heard of someone getting in trouble for forwarding a "joke"? Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #3

I'm unaware of that. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #5

I read it. I believe he got caught up in the moment. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #7

I finally saw the post...he did NOT use the word. SoapBox Jun 2015 #24

Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2015 #29

Ditto! I read it, and I agree with you. man4allcats Jun 2015 #43

+ 1 nenagh Jun 2015 #59

I looked it up in the Urban Dictionary and what NYC Skip did write is identified as CTyankee Jun 2015 #62

He knew exactly what it was - there a link from years ago referencing it....and if that's not enough bettyellen Jun 2015 #69

People are still acting like it's nothing? zappaman Jun 2015 #75

Yeah, we have people saying it's similar to any mean word at all- bettyellen Jun 2015 #89

I honestly don't know why his defenders here take the tack that he didn't actually CTyankee Jun 2015 #76

Jebus... joeybee12 Jun 2015 #87

Seriously, can we not do this line of arguing? Scootaloo Jun 2015 #8

It isn't evidence of anything. It's ambiguous, mysterious, hard to know exactly JDPriestly Jun 2015 #13

The banning went much too far. stonecutter357 Jun 2015 #53

Question Aerows Jun 2015 #44

Point is, let's not pretend that what he said was some mystery, or unintentional Scootaloo Jun 2015 #50

The fact that he was a long time Du'er makes it worse. Hatchling Jun 2015 #118

Making a mistake Aerows Jun 2015 #120

your scary, creepy avatar has a certain misogynistic characteristic to me. 2banon Jun 2015 #124

I think he was referring to "it" rather than "her" . . . Petrushka Jun 2015 #15

Agreed. Removing the post? Good. Banning NYC_SKP? Over the top. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #21

C'mon, you knew what he was talking about and so did everyone else. CTyankee Jun 2015 #77

I finally read the post after reading here that he had used the 'c' word. He did not, that loses sabrina 1 Jun 2015 #86

....! KoKo Jun 2015 #93

Ageism, Or the myriad fat jokes I suffer every time Chris Christie makes headlines. Ed Suspicious Jun 2015 #129

Urban Dictionary? Petrushka Jun 2015 #114

At a glance it was meant as an insult. herding cats Jun 2015 #22

Removing the post would have been appropriate. Banning NYC_SKP was too extreme. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #25

That may well be true. herding cats Jun 2015 #28

What shoud he admit was wrong? He did not use the "c" word. He did not mention Hillary in his JDPriestly Jun 2015 #84

This is where we're going to disagree. herding cats Jun 2015 #104

If you look at the exchange between SKP and a troll... Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #106

Hillary wasn't the subject of the phrase, it was the stunt, whatever the hell the stunt is. Ed Suspicious Jun 2015 #130

Actually, it DID get hidden by a jury. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #140

There are lots of ways to say what he said. I hope they won't all be banned. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #119

Adults should not have to have a list okasha Jun 2015 #131

But the point was that he didn't use any of those words. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #141

The word he use is the equvalent....abslutely no different than saying Sheepshank Jun 2015 #117

Forum hosts should be held to a higher standard as they reflect the site more than scum like me. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #81

You're wrong. At 20k posts, you graduated from being scum to being riffraff. (n/t) Jim Lane Jun 2015 #136

It was just a jump to the left.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #137

It was an excuse, not a reason. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2015 #105

+1 brer cat Jun 2015 #52

Exactly. A draconian death penalty for a misunderstanding of a 7 year member... 99Forever Jun 2015 #58

Thank you. Accuracy seems to be unimportant. I searched to try to find the 'offending post' sabrina 1 Jun 2015 #63

Who NYC_SKP supported is irrelevant to the discussion, IMO. peecoolyour Jun 2015 #4

That's typical. Think of the times we've tied a republican staffer's actions to their boss. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #6

NYC_SKP wasn't a member of Bernie's campaign. delrem Jun 2015 #12

It is extremely difficult to always use gender neutral words Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #16

I think that's where the fault lies. delrem Jun 2015 #41

How true. mnhtnbb Jun 2015 #51

'A rose by anyother name would smell as sweet' means that the thing is what it is, no matter what Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #61

Indeed. mnhtnbb Jun 2015 #73

If double standards are your concern, consider the fact that NYC_SKP stated that he felt those who Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #112

And a skunk cabbage is a skunk cabbage is a skunk cabbage. okasha Jun 2015 #132

No it isn't hard to do that dsc Jun 2015 #74

"What contributors to DU say doesn't reflect directly back on specific politicians." Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #17

I don't see it that way. delrem Jun 2015 #34

You have to admit that your conservatives have been harmed by our Tea Party. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #66

No shite.. bet Bernie wouldn't want him. Cha Jun 2015 #19

Do you think Hillary wants you? nt delrem Jun 2015 #30

I don't have a candidate I'm commiting to yet.. I like all the candidates. are you excusing his Cha Jun 2015 #31

No, I asked you a simple question, that's all. delrem Jun 2015 #35

Good. I'm glad you're not excusing his misogynistic slur against Hillary because so many are and Cha Jun 2015 #36

Actually I don't see that, Cha. delrem Jun 2015 #38

doesn't matter.. I see it and I'm sick of it. Cha Jun 2015 #39

Is to call a politician "morally depraved" acceptable to you, then? delrem Jun 2015 #42

I've talked about that twice on this board and here it is again.. Cha Jun 2015 #45

So you forgive yourself, in retrospect, and suffered no harm. delrem Jun 2015 #46

Oh get over yourself. People grow and learn.. I have nothing to forgive. Cha Jun 2015 #47

OK delrem Jun 2015 #48

She also called Hillary a liar in very plain, stark language. DisgustipatedinCA Jun 2015 #68

Politicians get called liars here all the time treestar Jun 2015 #96

Hey! We agree on something. DisgustipatedinCA Jun 2015 #99

False equivalency. okasha Jun 2015 #133

False argument since I didn't suggest "equivalence". delrem Jun 2015 #135

What you were trying to do okasha Jun 2015 #138

What are you trying to do? delrem Jun 2015 #139

Who wouldn't want Cha? treestar Jun 2015 #94

Excellent point, Spitfire. Cha Jun 2015 #18

K & R SunSeeker Jun 2015 #23

Watch your step if you want to say any thing negative about HRC. SoapBox Jun 2015 #26

A misogynistic slur is "negative"? there have been tons of negative things said about Hillary and Cha Jun 2015 #32

Someone tried to tell me the word "tool" was worse, lol... bettyellen Jun 2015 #70

I saw that little exchange.. it was all I could do not to enter the fray. lol Cha Jun 2015 #113

how about- watch your step if you want to use a slur about a Democrat nominee for POTUS? KittyWampus Jun 2015 #54

Everyone needs to watch their step w/r/t bigoted language. nt geek tragedy Jun 2015 #56

There are hundreds - maybe thousands - of negative posts about her every week. Codeine Jun 2015 #57

There are many negative posts about Hillary and a few posters who make such posts regularly Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #64

Yeah, excepting him. funny how that works isn't it? CTyankee Jun 2015 #65

I hope that's not the lesson you got from this. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #80

Silly because plenty of negative things treestar Jun 2015 #97

A very excellent point. Bernie's campaign is in part about changing the way we campaign and run Bluenorthwest Jun 2015 #60

Yes Bernie would have fired that person, and had Skip not been banned he would have been Autumn Jun 2015 #67

Wow madfloridian Jun 2015 #82

Yes, I have unsubscribed as well. I am still trying to decide what lesson is to be learned from Hiraeth Jun 2015 #90

Autumn, Did You See This? The Exact Exchange---including Reply to Banned Poster KoKo Jun 2015 #101

That's sheer speculation. closeupready Jun 2015 #71

Yes and, if a member of Hillary's campaign had implied that Bernie was a racist I would expect the Hiraeth Jun 2015 #72

There is a difference between a coordinated effort to smear and a cheap shot. Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #79

I agree the OP about Bernie was a cheap shot. What I find hard to understand is why Hiraeth Jun 2015 #83

The cheap shot was a one off slur against Hillary.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #85

From my understanding of what transpired, NYC_SKP was replying to a troll who had also Hiraeth Jun 2015 #88

^^^That is it^^^ -none Jun 2015 #91

Though the idea Bernie is a racist was never said treestar Jun 2015 #98

The implication of the total OP, including the pictures chosen, was very clear. Hiraeth Jun 2015 #103

The thousand threads were launched over the ambiguity over what NYC_SKP said daredtowork Jun 2015 #92

Respectfully, totally and emphatically disagree Hiraeth Jun 2015 #95

I respect your respectful disagreement daredtowork Jun 2015 #100

Yes, I did. Did you read the post to which he was replying? Hiraeth Jun 2015 #102

Unless I missed something, wasn't he just set up by the word "cunning"? daredtowork Jun 2015 #107

I do not think Skip was an MRA. In fact, I find him to be quite the opposite. Please refer to: Hiraeth Jun 2015 #108

No Skip was not an MRA daredtowork Jun 2015 #109

Actually, given the action taken by the Admin, it will now be much easier to ban anyone Hiraeth Jun 2015 #110

IMHO, it was EarlG's wording that was poor daredtowork Jun 2015 #111

Then it is "kinda" like a poor choice of pictures for *that* OP and you know a picture is worth Hiraeth Jun 2015 #146

It wasn't Cunning Stunt daredtowork Jun 2015 #148

Yes I read the whole thing. Thing is I know nothing of this Hiraeth Jun 2015 #149

Kinda like a "thoughtcrime" ---> Petrushka Jun 2015 #122

No Kinda about it. it wAs a Thought Crime n/t 2banon Jun 2015 #125

Oops! Must remember the Ministry of Love might be watching and . . . Petrushka Jun 2015 #127

Thanks for the reminder. Been a long time since I read 1984.. (high school back in the 60's.) 2banon Jun 2015 #147

Is it just me, or are things getting a bit Orwellian around here? Divernan Jun 2015 #145

Immaterial Aerows Jun 2015 #121

Hear! Here! 2banon Jun 2015 #123

After reading all the comments above, the word for today isn't in the Urban Dictionary---I looked. Petrushka Jun 2015 #128