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In reply to the discussion: Bernie is Jewish. Please don't minimize his minority status by calling him "another white person" [View all]MADem
(135,425 posts)Wives were not paraded about as part of the process of election -- women didn't have the vote. One can't overlay modern peculiarities on the attitudes of bygone eras.
Parties picked their candidates and duked it out in oddball, often proxy fashion. While marriage was the norm, it wasn't mandated for political success as it seems to be today.
Buchanan, according to historians, was thought to be gay. Since that wasn't the sort of thing that people advertised back then, he referenced a backstory about a dead fiancee and a broken heart--and even those who looked askance let it go. There was far less "sharing" that went on about people's personal affairs back then. It was rude to pry, and rumors were spread principally to gain political advantage, not to "out" people. Since James Buchanan was a horrible POTUS and everyone knew it, there was no real need to gild the lily. He was incompetent and most people laid the blame for the Civil War on him.