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In reply to the discussion: Bernie is Jewish. Please don't minimize his minority status by calling him "another white person" [View all]tanbrown
(32 posts)Hi; can I play this game too?
I am Jewish and a woman.
My life has been extra-interesting because I married a Muslim man who lived down to the worst stereotypes of Muslim men where both antisemitism and woman-bashing were concerned.
If you are saying that a Jewish woman gets more crap from being female than from being Jewish, I will second that. I have never been held back by my Jewishness, but my femalehood has made me the target of domestic violence, attempted rape, a constant drip-driip-drip of objectification and disrespect; also workplace harassment, loss of my former career, and has brought me general contempt/scorn/threats all my life.
Don't get me wrong - being female has some great perks, too! (And I thank the stars I am my Jewish-female self in wonderful open-hearted, one-law-for-all America, and not in my ex-husband's Arab homeland.) But overall, femaleness has been a much greater defining "handicap" to my dreams than Jewishness. And it has put my life in danger many times. Jewishness never has.
Other people's mileage may vary. I am just weighing in with my own experiences. I am curious to hear from other Jewish women on this site.
(I will add that I am openly Jewish but not recognizable as a Jew on first sight, and have an Italian last name thanks to my mom's exogamy. So I may have been sheltered from whatever bad experiences Bonobo seems to be drawing on.)
I wish both Clinton and Sanders well. A woman and a Jew vying for the nom, and both of them good liberals? I am in heaven!