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hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
7. Cats absolutely pick their people.
Tue Jun 16, 2015, 06:55 PM
Jun 2015

My first shelter cat had experienced a very hard life and had been abandoned outside in a Minnesota winter when his family moved away. He was an older kitty and he looked so sad in his Feline Resuce website pic. When I called the foster told me that I was the first person to call about him in the year she had had him "Everybody wants a kitten, no one wants a nice older cat."

After I hung up the phone and stopped crying I knew he was the cat for me. When I met him he actually came out and said "hi" and let me pet and brush him. He went home with me that day. He hid for a while at his new home and it took him a while to get some cattitude back, but he did. He even started meowing after a couple of weeks because I kept meowing at him. Max was with me for five years and two weeks; kidney failure got him at 16+ years.

A few weeks later I was going nuts without a cat. I saw a couple cute ones on the same website and decided to go over and meet them. One was already gone and the other was a little too skittish. I sat down in the waiting area and this big ol' Turkish Van looking cat came over and sat in the next chair, looking straight at me as if to say "You've seen the rest, but I'm the best." He wound up coming home with me. I wondered how he'd act after I got him home. No worries - he popped out of the cat carrier, took one look and said "all mine now" and was asleep on the couch within a half hour. Kidney failure got Butch too, after only 2.5 years together.

Next time I will get a young adult cat. Losing such a good friend in such a short time is just too hard.

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Queen Bambi Polly Hennessey Jun 2015 #1
Very pretty cat. LisaL Jun 2015 #2
Adoption is squee! shenmue Jun 2015 #3
YUp the dogs I got as an adult always chose me hollysmom Jun 2015 #4
Oh, those gorgeous golden eyes are befitting such a beautiful Queen! nt procon Jun 2015 #5
Dayum - no kidding! calimary Jun 2015 #12
My cat that I rescued as a stray Aerows Jun 2015 #6
She is GORGEOUS, Aerows! hifiguy Jun 2015 #8
She thanks you :) Aerows Jun 2015 #9
I'm trying to make friends with a stray tabby right now. DawgHouse Jun 2015 #11
Making friends is one of the fun challenges about stray feral cats. gordianot Jun 2015 #14
Cats absolutely pick their people. hifiguy Jun 2015 #7
Always awful to lose a cat Aerows Jun 2015 #10
Very hard Omaha Steve Jun 2015 #13
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